There is this guy that I've liked for about three years now(Lets name him S). He teases me a lot and trys to annoy me. His friends have also hinted that he likes me, but I'm not gonna trust them. And then there is this guy who like me(J), and I like him back, but he really isn't as funny as S. But he's really very sweet and thoughtful. J asked me out, and while we were going out, I couldn't get S out of my mind. It's so confusing, should I just give up on the both of them, or pick one? If I have to pick, who would be the guy?
2006-12-13 13:19:34 · 7 answers · asked by Demonata 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not trying to make S jealous, and I still have no clue about the answer.
2006-12-13 13:24:45 · update #1
You have no commitment at this time, why not date both? At least till you have a committed relationship.
Personally I think if you go out with J you'll have total control in this type of relationship. S may be more of a challenge, when the guy is being chased instead of the girl. Who knows it still may work out with S, if you ever get him under a spell.
Think of it this way... guy's think that they get what they pay for. If the guy has to work at getting you to go out with him, he has this feeling of accomplishment, and will make more of an effort to make the relationship work. If he practically gets to go out with you, with no or very little effort, he thinks your easy and cheap.
Good luck and take care!
2006-12-13 13:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Darren 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens, happens. Dont get stressed because before you know it, the decision will be made and you'll be with him, then later on down the road.....with someone else maybe, maybe a few more guys following that guy and one day married! Then you'll look back on times like this and laugh. Follow your heart, if you make a bad choice, learn from it. It takes a few wrong guys to find the right one anyway! Good luck :)
2006-12-13 13:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd go for this guy S. But thats just me. Only reason a guy would tease and annoy you, is to get your attention.
2006-12-13 13:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by ╣♥╠ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-12-13 13:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by lover l 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Follow your heart, dear. Try both out. Soon you will find your answers
2006-12-13 13:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by Neo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its odvious u like S more but dont waste all ur time waiting on him when you can make him jealous lol.
2006-12-13 13:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin.
If that doesn't work for you, then you already know the answer.
2006-12-13 13:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by sueflower 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋