What I'm here to ask is, well, why does a person like myself get put in the friend zone? Let me elaborate...
Generally, I'm a nice person. By being nice I've seen a major side effect. I don't get a serious relationship.
I know this sounds like total BS, right? Why would a nice guy be left in the cold while some asshole is in a marriage with the woman of your dreams? I'm not talking Middle School here, I'm talking real relationships. Why do I sit idle while some cocky prick is in a serious relationship? What is it about the nice guy that is so god damn unattractive to women? All my life I've heard "Let's just be friends" while the woman goes off and marries someone that is abusive?. I wouldn't be wasting your time if I was shy, I'd know why I wasn't getting a relationship. But the question I ask to those of you out there is, generally to women, what is so unappealing about nice people? Don't give me answers that say "I'm there for you" cause I know you're not, don't waste your time.
2006-12-13 13:06:53 · 4 answers · asked by wizard of stealth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be that you come across as non-agressive (in a not going out and getting what you want way). A woman isn't going to go for a man that doesn't seem like he's going to go after what he wants. Try being a little less passive in a relationship, make a suggestive little comment or two. Put yourself out there as someone who's in charge. But remember...keep that nice guy persona and let it out to play every once in a while.
Hope this helps!
2006-12-13 13:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Denise W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple. A woman wants a challenge. She wants that wanna be gangster or long haired hippie, and make him into the nice guy you are. But of course that doesn't happen, and she'll complain that she can't find any good guys when her relationship crumbles. But there is light at the end of the tunnel. Just give it time, and it will happen for you.
2006-12-13 13:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by Brian F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take that girl from him NOW or be that friends guy ur choice
2006-12-13 13:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u have urself a problem there hun! (-:
2006-12-13 13:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by ilovebrooks3112 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋