Well i am 15 and I just wanna know if it isa too young too date and also i just had a few questions about it too
Ok I am very shy but i know i have to get over that and can not use taht as an exuse but i had some questions like
How do you ask someone out not literally but like how
Also while you are dating how do you know if you should like make a move or like do something without knowing the other persons reaction to it?
I am only 15 and just getting into the real world and some advice would really be helpful. keep in mind i am pretty mature for my age it is just that i do not know much about this
Thank you
2006-12-13 12:57:36 · 8 answers · asked by chaoschilled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right you are gettin into the real world. And real world includes dating. You're definitely not too young. Just find someone you like and start showin signs you like them, tlakin, spending time, then ask em. And usually you'll know when the time is right to make a move. I know its scary but trust me it all pretty much just happens naturally. just go with the flow =) its fun
2006-12-13 13:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it is not... I started dating when I was 13, and understand where you are coming from. When asking someone out, treat it more like a fun thing, and not a date. But ask him to go somewhere like the movies, and make it into one... For instance, in the movie theatre, get to the seats first, and put your hand where is will lay. His hand will go on top of yours and if he doesn't jerk it away, then hold hands, its not a very threatening gesture.
To overcome shyness, just think of this. It has always worked for me: you only get one first impression, so make your best of it!
To me, best time to make a move, or have a first kiss, whatever you want to call it, is when you are taking somebody home, on a walk, or snuggled on a couch watching a movie... You don't just do it, either. You gradually hint at it, and see his reaction. If it is postivie, you have the go ahead!
2006-12-13 21:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Zach S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 isn't young at all, and trust me, I would know, I have 6 kids. You shouldn't make a move if you don't know how the person will react because they might get mad. You ask by asking them out to a small cafe or coffee house. Not to social and that's where you'll have time to get to know the person to see if you really want to get with them. It's OK that you're shy; I was shy at your age, too.
2006-12-13 21:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 was young for me, my parents thought so, and looking back, I think so too.
If you feel awkward at times, perhaps you should wait a while before you start dating.
Get to know more people and that should help you overcome your shyness, and give you a variety of options to look at for when you are ready to date.
But to ask someone out, all you have to do is casually ask them if they want to hang out somewhere. Doesn't have to be all fancy. Just act like it's nothing big.
2006-12-13 21:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by liz76021 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not to young to date, just dont go into any kind of relationship until after ur 25, there is no need for u to have a girlfriend just date. about asking a girl out just do it all she can say is yes or no. Life goes on................Next girl
2006-12-13 21:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by RUDY THE RUDE 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its all part of life. u know when to make a move or not just go with your heart and never go back. good luck
2006-12-13 21:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so - I'm twelve and I really like a guy, and he likes me, so we have started to date like last week. I don't know about other people, but 15 is defiantly not to young - but still, it depends on your heart and passion.
2006-12-15 19:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by kapo 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Taking note of the horrible grammar and spelling....................
No it is not. That simple.
2006-12-13 21:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by wasup109 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋