Hello!!! thanks for reading this... Ok, I'm on my senior year of high school, and I have a lot of friends, you know, I have fun, (not in a bad way). the thing is that, like 3 weeks ago, I met this guy, and he told me about his life and his past relationships, I did too, but not very openly because I don't really know him. But since that day, it seems like he likes me A LOT, but it makes me unconfortable, because, he is like stalking me inside the school, he stays far, he only says hi once, but then the rest of the day I see him everywhere I go, and you know IT'S A BIG SCHOOL. The thing is that he is very sweet I dont know we have had a conversation like once, I don't know, but now like a week a go, he says something funny like messing with me and then he HUGS ME!!! and says just kidding, common, I haven't given him any green light not even to hug me. So I don't know what to do. I know I should just talk to him and ask him to stop, but I feel like I'm going to hurt his feelings. =( =(
2006-12-13 12:46:10 · 4 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for the answer so far...
hey, I forgaot to sya, I don't want him to hug me, but how can I stop him from doing that cause I don't think I 'll be able to tell him with words. THANKS!!
2006-12-13 12:54:10 · update #1
Thanks for the answers so far...
hey, I forgaot to sya, I don't want him to hug me, but how can I stop him from doing that cause I don't think I 'll be able to tell him with words. THANKS!!
2006-12-13 12:54:21 · update #2
If you don't tell the guy no he will not stop. Communication is important here, you have given him no green lights but it doesn't sound like you have given him any red ones either. By not communicating your discomfort you are leading him on. Communicate!
2006-12-13 12:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by InvicibleStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And...you also feel uncomfortable when he hugs you. Being selfless and caring is great but never at the expense of your own feelings...
2006-12-13 22:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will hurt his feelings. If you like him, then what is the problem. If you want to date him, which is appears you do, tell him you want to take it slow. That shouldn't hurt him too much.
2006-12-13 20:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by silver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, in your case, stand your ground but be careful to not burn any bridges uneccessarily? You know?
2006-12-13 20:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by fslcaptain737 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋