ok im 18 and my sister is 14 i'll admit that I have sex with my bf alot, but hell Im old enough and we've been dating for 3 years I walked in the house and some boy that I think is a freshman at my school ran out and she was hurring up to put her clothes on, then later I saw a flavored condom in her bathroom. I didnt say anything but I am assuming shes done it more than once, because hes always calling and around our neighborhood. I dont want to sound like a hypocrite but how do I tell her that she needs to stop before something happens that she regrets.
2006-12-13 12:45:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
See, you have to watch what you say. if you seem to "strict" she might do it to piss you off. But at the same time, you have to be strict enough to get through her head.
If I had a sexually active sister I would ask what she would think if she was 18, and and her 14 year old sister was having sex. If she'll say something like "i wouldn't care" I'd give her a lecture on how it's because tiny, teenager wanna-be whores [I'm sorry, but at this age, it seems to be cool to be over-experienced] that we have 14, 15, 16 and 17 year old young mothers and fathers.
I would also tell her it's good that she used protection. [That might make you seem like a good and caring sister instead of an evil and strict one.]
Al you have to do is paraphrase your words so that she won't get offended but you'll get your point through her.
2006-12-13 12:52:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one you are setting a good example of been carefull. BEcause at least she's using condoms and not having sex without them. But your the big sister who is suppose to be someone she would look up to but your doing it alot. SO she is just following in big sister's foot steps. GOOD JOB
2006-12-13 12:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you restrian from having sex then she will. Even 18 is too young of an age to be having sex.
2006-12-13 12:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by nappyhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u're too young to have sex too my dear! You have set an example for her. Dont blame her for that. Next, tells her the cases of STD and other consequences e.g unwanted pregnancy. Talk to her nicely and tells her that she is far too young for all these
2006-12-13 12:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just the way it is these days! tell her to carry condoms in every size! make sure he strap up cause AIDS out here! i think shes too young at 13 or younger 14 and older.... just keep it safe!
2006-12-13 12:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how you tell her "YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX" Then show he pictures of people with AIDS/HIV dying slowly. Try to show her Americans or Europeans dying slowly, due to the connection and identification with Western culture.
2006-12-13 12:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by InTROLLigent 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Set an example yourself tell her what the appropriate age is
At least she is using protection
2006-12-13 12:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is have her come in your room and show her all kindsa videos about pregnancies and all that.. or have her watch a newborn or a little kid for a day or two and she wll see stayin up with that kid alll night isnt a fun thing
2006-12-13 12:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight out, and don't let anything stop you. There is such a thing as too young!
2006-12-13 12:48:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz tell her straight up, n if she dsnt listen, try n hve a talk wit da boy
2006-12-13 12:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋