im 15 hes 16. we both have not had sex yet. he's more ready than i am but he's not pushing it. should we pursue it anyway?
2006-12-13 12:21:34 · 33 answers · asked by amza 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the worst thing? im the only one in my group of friends who hasnt done it.
2006-12-13 12:30:41 · update #1
dont do sex with him
u will make a big mistake
wait till u grow in ageand u will be more wise and u will use ur mind before doing anything
2006-12-13 12:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO not until you are fully ready and you need to plan it out too cus this is a HUGE deal talk it over and make sure all the usual stuff is in place and then you need to make sure u are ready you will regret it if you werent ready a lot of people know each other longer than a year until they have sex but make sure you are ready in all areas and also you should do the main things said like think it through know exactly wats gonna happend all that good stuff
2006-12-13 12:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by bullyathletic145 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO! Sex is part of love in a marriage. At 15 I thought I knew what real love was! I now know I had no idea! Many many many times people your age go out for a year or two then have sex and that male they knew would not act bad quickly moved on to someone else. Sex is for marriage and you will not like the horrible emotional effects of sin. No one at 15 thinks they will get pregnant but thousands do every day. It is not good on your body physically or emotionally. He says he has not had sex, they all say that!!!! STDs are nothing fun!
2006-12-13 12:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by tam4givin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I wouldn't, you're very young and bad things could happen. Only have sex if you are ready to take care of a baby. I'm 18 and still sex free.. I've been dating my boyfriend for over year. I was dating a guy when I was 15 for a year and we almost had sex and I'm SO happy we didn't. Trust me, waiting is good.
2006-12-13 12:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know you are to immature if you are saying , oh I am the only one who has not done it in my group of friends then you need to grow up. You are going to do what you want anyway, but I am a lot older than you and I still have not "done it" and I am not going to let pressure get in the way. Go ahead, do it because you are scared of what people will think about you. Get pregnant and have a baby, stds and realize how it can mess up you life at such a young age because you weren't mature enough to make an adult decision. Go ahead and see what the consequences are girl.
2006-12-13 12:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two words..... NO NO NO.....
You are 15 !!!! Why would you want to have sex? You are way too young!!!
Boys are cool, don't get me wrong, but having sex at 15 is very irresponsible.
Believe me, I know!! I have a 2 year old child, and he's great, but you do not want a baby. Or some icky STD!!!
Good Luck !!!
2006-12-13 12:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Katie A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait!!!! Finish school, have fun, get involved with school activities. Don't concentrate on sex. When you start to have sex it's a lot of things that comes with that. Save yourself for your husband, you are worth the wait. Be a leader not a follower. Boys that age sometimes only have sex on their minds waiting for the next girl to have sex with. WAIT!!!!
2006-12-13 13:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by jamaljamila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! That you have the smarts to ask this question publicly is a pretty strong indication that you have reservations about sex and know in your heart you are not ready. If you have any self worth then don't have sex before you're an adult, and if he values you one iota he won't seek to make you have sex before you turn 18.
2006-12-13 12:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by ralegas 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This should be a question that only you can answer yourself. No one else can tell you if it's right or not, this is a choice that you alone have to decide, the only thing I can say is to remember that your still young and you have your whole life ahead of you, don't do it because your friend's do, do it because you know the time is right.
2006-12-13 12:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by RuneDragon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should wait a while longer. Guys are always ready so don't stress about that! If you due pursue it be sure to use protection. YOU are the one that needs to be ready,
2006-12-13 12:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Merrily 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have a plenty of experience in this subject.
You have all the time in the world to do it. For now, enjoy the virginness as long as you can. Don't be in a hurry.
Let it come naturally when you meet someone really special.
Once it's gone, it's gone forever. I would, at least, wait 'til I go to college. Don't you think?
2006-12-13 12:26:42 · answer #11 · answered by Dumbo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋