What was the worst relationship you have been in?

Question

what made it so bad

Answer 1

he lied from day one about a very important issue to me..i can't stand liars

Answer 2

While in college I ran into an old girlfriend from high school (from a neighboring town) at a restaurant where she was working. Had not seen or heard anything of her in 3 years. We started seeing each other again.
After about a month & a half, things having progressed as one might expect; a man picked up when I called her place. This man informed me that the woman I thought of as my girlfriend was already married. She was cheating on her husband with me. She made me the "other man". Lieing b*%ch!!!

Answer 3

My worst relationship that I have been in would be when I met this guy from work release. He seemed to have all the right answers and appeared to be on the right track as far as God is concerned. We begin talked for six months before we made the decision to move in together. Upon my pastors' advice, I married him. I didn't want to, but my pastor kept saying how God would bless me. What a big mistake! One thing lead to another. He told me he could not have anymore children according to his physician. Then, I ended up pregnant. I chose to kept the child. While pregnant, he would constantly start arguements and fights. I would have to leave the house most of the night. Then when I would come home, he would have locked the doors leaving me and my other two children outside. I had a key, but he would lock the screen door. I would call the police and they would break the locks or get him to open the door. This lasted about two years, before I said enough is enough. Enough became enough when he started talking about me to my neighbors, yelling very bad things about me, talking under my clothes, calling me out my name, and threatening to get a life insurance policy on me so that he could collect the money when I die. He would get drunk every weekend. I am speaking of fifths of gin or voka plus beer. He would get up in the middle of the night and try to cook. One night, he almost set the house on fire. After having our son, I left the hospital and drove myself to work. I had to continue to work to support my children and me because he would drink most of his money up. I have been separated for six years now, but he continues to try to run my life by refusing to sign divorce papers. I haven't yet been able to afford an attorney because of course he doesn't pay support. This was and still is to some point a night mare.

Answer 4

My worst relationship lasted for 4 months, the frist 2 months were good, but then, it started being that nothing, I said, did, thought or wanted was ever good enough...It was starting to be a controlling relationship.

Answer 5

I just got out of a relationship with a woman I first met 22 years ago. We had our problems but none we couldn,t overcome. Than, a week ago she went to the bar with her girlfriends, got drunk and started kissing other guys. I forgave her. Until she said what she did wasn't cheating and that it wasn't a big deal. I said goodbye but what made it so bad was that i wanted to spend my life with her. love hurts.

Answer 6

I dated this guy for a year and we were pretty serious. Then problems started happening. His family didn't like me at all because I wasn't of their culture and I could definately tell that they were not pleased with our relationship and his choice. That started creating a barrier between us. Then he stopped talking to me altogether. We would go out with our mutual friends and he would ignore me completely. When I tried to break it off with him, he would tell me how much he loved me, ect, and I would foolishly remain with him...until he broke up with me a week later, because he didn't want me to be upset. Basically it was a waste of time, and a lot of pain went into making that relationship work.

Answer 7

He lived in California, which was bad enough. But then a guy friend of mine came to me one day with a conversation between my guy and a fake screen name my friend had made to prove he was a cheating scumbag. I called him and dumped him immediately and told him never to call me again. To this day I don't think the jerk knew he was talking to a guy the whole time.

Answer 8

He berated me constantly and asked me if I would call a couple of his ex-girlfriends. He then wanted me to hand over the receiver after "I got past the parents." I refused. After I broke it off with him he stalked me for another four years and called my friends and family constantly trying to find me. He got a woman to call them in addition to himself. Then he got married to someone else and pulled off the same thing with her except that she had a baby from him. So he got custody to force her to come and visit him while picking up the child. He even tried to get custody of his STEPchild because he wanted his son to "have someone to play with."
What made it bad? He was a control freak and a liar.

Answer 9

I dated someone who was a serious substance abuser and a master at making me think it was all my fault. Actually, a lot of my friends have been in relationships with similar guys, that make you think you messed them up. I spent a looong time trying before I figured out you can't fix people. They can only fix themselves. And more importantly, it's not your fault.

Answer 10

I got this thing going with a guy I had met on vacation. We started to like eachother and we hung out with each other a lot. On the last day of vacation I was sitting next to him and he started to feel up the girl on the other side of him.... Right infront of me. I was pissed.

Answer 11

One with a boyfriend, it was bad because I loved him so much and I'd do anything for him, but he didn't care about me and was very abusive, but I wouldn't let myself see that because I was so blind. He made me do some horrible things, and he used my love and it hurt...it was bad, but I'm happier now...