i really like this guy that goes to my school..
im 17 years old and im STILL a virgin (i guess im proud)
but im ready to be screwed ya know?
i just wanna do it with this guy...
so how do i do it?
i mean should i play it cool when im around him?
or nasty and naughty?
seriously answer if u have an opinion
2006-12-13 12:09:10 · 13 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell us about his personality.
2006-12-13 12:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Shortii. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) does he know you like him?
2) why not?
3) neither. act yourself.
4) virgins rule. I know older ones than you. it just means you really care about yourself & are waiting for somebody who will uh... well stay with you forever.
5) is this guy that guy?
6) if so then he'll come to love you for who you are. no amount of acting will get him. only being yourself.
well I can *really* only speak for myself (then again who can do otherwise?) but, if I were you--- I'd REALLY wait untill you know the guy, and you're sure he's the *one.* yea. like neo. lol
now then... this is all hypotheical. if you aren't looking for a lasting relationship... well I'd say you should go after somebody shallow. because they won't care about *you*-- who you are--- they'll only care about the sex, and how you look-- and that totally sucks.
so do it with somebody nice. who wants you for who you are, not because you're hot--
also-- may I say--- there's this interesting phenomon about sex-- it causes you to have a very deep emotional link to the person-- so the concept of an F-Buddy can't really exist--- there is always some level of emotional involvment in sex. well... that's what makes it feel good--- not just the stimulation of genetalia-- it's the emotions-- and yea-- you can do that yourself. it's called masturbation. yes. it works even if you're a virgin. seriously. maybe not as well-- but it'll work. if he likes you too. then maybe you've got something--just make sure it's love-- before you take that ulitmate step.
2006-12-13 20:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm fourteen, and quite frankly I plan on being a virgin until I'm married. I think that it is morally wrong to give up your virginity at 17. You aren't even in college yet. Then, what if he rejects you? I'm sure that will look good. I really don't suggest you do this yet.
2006-12-13 20:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by MG 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally I think if you wait you'll be much happier than if you don't. I know so many girls that got pregnant or sick. Being a virgin is something to be proud of but it's your choice. Good luck.
2006-12-13 20:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are really sure that you are ready to do this, and you are sure that this is the guy you want for your first time, then you should jus play it cool, be yourself, and then depending on how he responds to you and his reactions to the stuff you do, just go from there and if he wants to as well then it should happen...
2006-12-13 20:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by Justin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just be urself seriously if u try to be nasty or naughty hell probably like it but if he doesnt know ur still a virgin he might think ur a s.l.u.t (im not trying to insult you). i thinkyou should just play it cool
2006-12-13 20:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by alex 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
play it cool just ask him want to have some fun tonite when the time is right
2006-12-13 20:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by woahcortney! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nasty and naughty, if you really want action, nasty and naughty
2006-12-13 20:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you wanna do, but no guy wants to bring a slut home to mom
2006-12-13 20:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsistah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck is your problem?! You got issues. And what the heck is up with you and the guy and sex, huh?!
2006-12-13 20:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by e-chan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋