I was raised a good boy, never partied, never got drunk, never had a lot of friends (I think my mom saw to that), got sick when I was 19, didn't get to college until I was 28 and by then I didn't really know how to appraoch women. Now I'm a 34-year-old virgin trying to get things started but it seems like all the women my age here in the town of Casper, Wy are already married or seemingly not interested and all the younger women (I admit I am attracted to slightly younger pretty girls--my bad) that I have had a chance to meet or talk to think I'm way to old. Is this it, did it all just pass me by?
2006-12-13 12:08:45 · 8 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lord No Man!! Men like you are a very rare and it sounds like you just missed out on being a teenager. You will have all the same feelings as they do about how to approach women. You just have to be confident in your self. Take stock of how you look and who you relate to. I wouldn't go for women to much younger than you because they may not understand you being a virgin. But if you are 34 a woman in her 20's is fine as far as age goes. Maybe you just need to get out and make some friends that you work with. Go out of town or something and meet some people. Everything will be ok . You will find your niche and you will be in there like donkey Kong. Don't fret over it to much will only make it worse.
Good Luck Honey
2006-12-13 12:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by Feather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it hasn't passed you. Your life is very far from over. If you are attracted to the younger ones it is because it was a part of your life that you didn't get to experience, an important part. That was the part where you learned how to do this! Be patient. She is out there.
2006-12-13 12:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, you are fine! You'll find someone! Just don't try so hard. Go to a great church where there are singles groups and stuff. Good luck!
2006-12-13 12:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just the right age to bloom into reality and get all the goodies. Wow the girls are waiting on you.
2006-12-13 12:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes n also i suggest u not hit on 'younger prettier girls' unless u got big bucks, cause u will be slapped.
look around, have fun n enjoy life, n before u noe it, u'll be blinded by love
2006-12-13 12:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't think so. i myself am kind of getting into the whole dating scene and i'm 23. so, i don't think that you got left behind. anyways, you're not that old. you really sound like a cutie!
2006-12-13 12:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lower your standards..Go for really ugly women....bang the first few and get the ball rolling.
2006-12-13 12:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so why don't you get a book and study up on how to make conversation?
2006-12-13 12:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋