Abortion is out of the question and so is adoption. i made the mistake and now i am gonna make the best of it. Theres no way i could live with myself if i wasnt in my child's life. how do i tell my parents. then again how do i tell my boyfriend??
2006-12-13 11:51:32 · 23 answers · asked by anom 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
you can either tell them upfront, or leave the positive pregnacy test where they can find it with a note by it, then have them come to you when they find it
2006-12-13 11:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
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2016-11-26 01:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your boy friend first. Then BOTH of you should tell your parents. This will be one of the hardest things you will ever do, Just know that no matter what your parents love you. Once the shock wears off, you and your family will enjoy the new member. This is a very scary thing but make sure you give your boyfriend some time to take it all in (a day or two). Try not to pressure him into anything and don't let him pressure you into anything either! Just know that Everything will be great in the end
it just has a few bumps along the way.
2006-12-13 12:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Tim O 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just sit your parents down and tell them that you know you made a mistake and that you are pregnant and you want to keep the child and hope that after they yell they will be okay with it. when you talk to your boyfriend just tell him straight that your pregnant. The first thing he'll probably say is "are you sure" Than he may suggest an abortion. Tell him what you think and what you want of him. Expect him to brake up with you and walk away and hope that he'll be supportive. Either way make sure you see a doctor as soon as possible.
Good luck! Bye!!
2006-12-13 11:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by mistyfan69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hv to say that be extra careful next time. Yes, good thinking.. abortion is not in the Q. However, get ur bf and family sit together and discuss it. I know its not easy and u gona take up loads of courage to do so.. but its good to talk things out with everyone. This is a way to show ur maturity. Its always easy to say then doing. If i were u i wont have the encourage either.. but somehow things has to be done before its too late. Take great care!
2006-12-13 18:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by Its me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should be easiest.
For me, parents were the hardest, especially my mom. But I wasn't 16 either.
Well, just sigh and tell them. Brace for disappointment and be ready to stand by your decision. Have answers to likely questions such as school, finances, etc. Of course you won't have all the answers, but just be ready for the questions. In time they will get over the shock and get back to the love!
You're not the first girl to go thru this and you're certainly not the last. You will be fine!
And now that it's over with, have a happy & safe pregnancy!
2006-12-13 11:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by LittleFreedom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had my first child when I was 16. (Now I have 5) I was also scared to tell my mom. My mom is a very loving person, so I said "Mom, if I ever had a baby what would you want his/her name to be? She told me and then I said Great now that we know what to name it how about taking me to the doctor to see when he/she will be here. She was shocked, laughed at me, told me I was crazy and said I was probably due for a physical. She me an appointment and found out I wasn't joking. She was shocked but got over it and was really pleased that she heard from me and didn't have to wait and be surprised later or have someone else tell her. So I say just tell your parents they need to know.
2006-12-13 12:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by mickey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only logical explination is to be straight up and tell the truth.The longer you wait the easier it is for your boyfriend to weasel out of it(maybe). but if your boyfriend loves you he will be there for you and your baby,he has a right to know NOW. I was 16 when I had my first child,it was'nt easy to tell my mom but,I did and it was a relief and a load off my shoulders, when you are pregnant you don't need to be stressed out because that is not good for the baby. So tell your parents know and get it over with. Be strong for you and your baby. If you have'nt been to your ob/gyn yet, please go!
2006-12-13 12:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by torreums2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I found out I was preg at 17. My boyfriend already had some suspicions before I even knew for sure so it wasnt hard telling him. When I found out I actually was I just sat in my room and cried for like hours and for some reason my mom walked in. When she asked me what was wrong I couldnt possibly lie to her. But she honestly reacted a lot better than I thought she would. All she said was "I told you so". Or somethin like that and she said that I would have to tell my dad... which freaked me out even more. But when I told my dad he laughed because he thought I was joking! What a jerk. But now theyre happy because they're gonna be grandparents and all my dad said was "**** happens". What more can they say? It's not like they can ground you for the rest of your life, cause now that youre pregnant there's not much you can do for fun anyway! Just tell them, believe me... it won't be as bad as you think it will!
Congrats!
2006-12-13 12:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
wow! my daughter felt the same way and ill tell you -as a parent- i was a little embarrassed that she was SO scared to tell me. im sure its going to be hard to tell them but i promise you need them, so heres what my daughter did, she sucked it up and told me. yes i was shocked and totally surprised but once i absorbed it i let her know that i would be there every second- no matter what she decided-(happy to report we have a beautiful 17 mo. old boy) then you AND your mom can tell your dad together, dads tend to yell and say things that are hard to take back( now you cant separate her dad and baby).:) as for boyfriend you didnt say how old he was but theres a chance he will run off, statistics prove that, another reason you need parental support. anyway good luck to you and if you fill a childs life with love from everyone that little smile will take you over many roadblocks! happy holidays and peace to yours
2006-12-13 12:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by nightyzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes. First I showed my boyfriend the positive test. He will probably be very shocked. He should go with you to tell your parents to show that he is going to support you in all of this. If he is not going to be supportive then you are going to have to be strong and face your parents on your own. YOur paretns love you and they will be shocked and upset but they will be there for you. It is not the end of the world. My son is now 9 and he is a very good kid. It is not going to be a easy road to take but it is very worth it.
2006-12-13 12:04:59 · answer #11 · answered by gemir69 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋