the guy i like..?

Question

so the guy i like.. i didnt hug today or talk to. or anything. i walked right past him and he saw me. we are bestfriends.
but, im trying to ignore him seeing if it'll help any i want him to come to me and see if he even cares that im here..
is it a good ida or am i ******* crazy?

what would you do .. to see if he even cared about you?

heres some details about our past:



i have a crush on this guy we've been bestfriends for two months now. i met him off myspace but, found out he goes to my school. he doesn't like me back [i have this feeling he doesnt .. or he hides it really well]. he knows i like him though. he had this GF, and i was pissed but, got over it. he broke up with her the day he found out that i liked him. does he like me and hide it, or, does he not?
the third day i knew him, i came in to school early [as did he] to sit and talk. we met in the cafeteria and he and i sat on the same side of the bench his friend came over and sat on the oposite side and was talking about something. the guys i like all the sudden started to tickel me out of nowhere. i laugh and pushed his hands away the he did it again. i yelled out "dont touch my fat" i fell over and he fell over on me [on the bench.] we both got up fast and continued talking. thats it.

Answer 1

your ********* crazy........thats a bad idea he will just learn not to like you trust me. Just tell him how you feel and im sure he will understand if he is really your friend.

Answer 2

Well doing it this way is not the best way. He may think that your friendship is fickle and that may hurt any chance that there is. If this guy is your friend and you like him in a romantic way then be honest. Great relationships are based on friendships and you want both you have to keep the friendship strong.

Just talk to him let him know that you are nervous about asking him how he feels. Don't say look I love you and i wanna be your girl. Just in a casual way ask him if he has ever thought about what it would be like if you two were dating. You know the parents already know we are friends or whatever. You will find a way. Good Luck Dear

Answer 3

I do that all the time, this guy named Thomas is like mt best friend, and I don't know I always have the feeling to try to make him notice me for no good reason. It's perfectly normal. Just don't over do it, otherwise he'll for sure know what ur trying to do.

Answer 4

If you guys are best friends and you're starting to suddenly ignore him, then he'll probably think that you're mad at him for something. That's not what we want here. (Unless you WANT him to come to you and ask what he did wrong and get all this attention from him... but here's a better way IMO)

Just TALK to him about it! ...if you're not comfortable with talking to him right away, ask a family member or friend you can trust and ask for their advice.

If you want to talk to me about it some more, then you can just e-mail me. :)

Answer 5

well if u talk to some of his friends and he comes up behind u and hugs u then thats a pretty good sign

Answer 6

No not really... he'll just think you shunned him. Then he'll only get mad or feel hopeless. If you guys are best friends, it could be harming him emotionally - just like it seems to be doing to you.

Answer 7

Okay I say u should get out his Kindergaten act and just ask him about if he cares for u or not.

Answer 8

i think thats a good idea because i think that if he really cares about you he'll realize that he misses talking to you and he'll come to you and talk to you

Answer 9

It's better to go get what you want then to let it come to you. Watch out, there's always someone willing to do what you won't

Answer 10

if u playin hard on him...that doesnt mean he'll start gettin to u...
he'll keep off too and stop chasin u...so both ya'll gon go separate ways