hey i need u guys help cuz this is my first time askin a girl out i am 15 lol i chill with her for like few times we talk and stuff first time i saw her i love her alot lol how can i ask her out ? online or real life?
2006-12-13 11:41:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
= Real life is the best choice, ask her to do something that you both like doing, second choice would be on line. Be specific as to where to meet and when etc. so there is no confusion.
2006-12-13 11:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well i am a girl and i would love it if a guy that i liked as a friend and maybe even liked more than a friend asked me out! Here's some answers!
1. Write her a note! Say "Hey do you want to go out with me? Whats your number?"
2. Ask her personally! Make it big! With Flowers and a card! Chocolate and a kiss! You never know if she is in love with you too!
3. Be creative!
2006-12-13 11:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by abbyniccole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, or you will look back at this opportunity and say why what if, trust me you would rather know, so ask her the worst thing she can say is no, and that's not the end of the world, Oh and it is always best to ask in person not over the phone or the Internet, This way they can see that you are for real and not just a prank. Good luck and be safe............
2006-12-13 11:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by matt v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all really depends if she likes you back. you got to get some spice in there and let her know that you really like her and that you will respect her and treat her well. if she likes you back, then she'll say yes because every girl likes that her boyfriend is a gentleman to her and treats her like the most precious thing on earth. or maybe you should really get to know her, like her favorite color, what she likes/dislikes, that kind of thing, but keep in mind: make her feel comfortable with you and dont get too clingy. gain her trust and communicate your feeling directly. dont leave everything for the last minute, because you never know if someone else likes her. girls also like it that the guy is not ashamed to express his emotions. let her know you like her, and she will go out with you. good luck!
2006-12-13 11:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u know her e-mail then email her alot and get to know her more, then later on either say or email her saying, Hey, do u maybe wanna go out sometime,just the two of us, maybe on saturday, at 7:00 pm??? Then she'll know that ur into her, and maybe she'll except.
2006-12-13 11:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by resaml 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do it in real life but since this is your first time, its understandable that u would b nervous so online works 2, mabe also texting. another suggestion would b 2 wait and get 2 no her better, it might increase your chances or her saying yes
2006-12-13 11:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by ***KellBell*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha ha ha ha i was in the same place when i was 14 this is what i did.
back then AIM was the big thing so everyone was on AIM all the time.
i said to her "hey what would you say if i wer to ask you out?"
she responded "i dont know i would ahve to think about it."
so i said "okay then maybe ill ask later."
she didint get it untill her friend IMed her and said "OMG i cant believe Nick actualy asked you out!!!!"
then she IMed me and said "yes!"
we wer together for 3 years split up in late october and are still EXTREMLY close p[ossibly going to hook up again soon
2006-12-13 11:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
real life!!! a girl luvs a boy with real emotions just straight up ask her. chances r she likes u to and has been wanting to do the same to u!!
2006-12-13 11:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by ~*****Latina Gangsta*****~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would walk up to her and say hey i know u dont know me well but i would like to go out with you maybe we can catch a movie or somthing.. or write her telling her you like her and want to go out with her but make sure you have a flower store bought to give to her..
lots of luck and happy holidays
2006-12-13 11:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by Beth m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree you def. want to do it in person..just go up to her.. and tell her how you feel and ask her out.. it's worse never knowing u know what I mean.. and people who don't ask face to face guess what there the least to be talk to
2006-12-13 11:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Miss Mimzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋