im with this guy, we have 2 months together, yesterday, we had a fight with some girl he used to like, the point is that he gave her the reason. and by the way he called her the day before to warn her that i would do something bad to her. i got really pissed off, i dumped him. he called asking me why did i want to hurt her, i said cause i wanted to. cause shes mean, today i had to go to his house to give him some work he had to do. he told me that he wanted to turn back in time to make things right, that if i want he would embarassed her that he would do everything i want just to be with me again. he hugged me, kissed me and asked me for forgiveness. what should i do?
2006-12-13 11:41:17 · 20 answers · asked by Babbler-Alexa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off, the question should be, "should he forgive me?" Why would you do something bad to this girl that he is NOT dating? They're not together. You WON, there's no reason to hate on this girl. Get over it and go on with your life. Apparently he still wants to be with you, take him back and tell him that "you're" sorry. Apologize to him. He deserves that much from you.
2006-12-13 11:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you sound like a hood rat. why do you want to hurt his ex? that's childish and petty and not a good look for you. so he was right to warn her that you were going to do something to her. even if some one is a complete as$hole that doesn't give you the right to be full of sh*t too. (feel me) as far as the dude, he really does like you because he is being a straight punk by backing down from his original actions. however, i don't think you should give him another chance because a man that loves you would've told you that being a b*tch for any reason is wrong. a strong man will stick to his guns if he is right. if ol' boy had your best interest at heart he wouldn't want anything to pop off between his present (you) and past (her) because he wouldn't want to run the risk of you being hurt in anyway. so leave him.
2006-12-13 19:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you don't forgive him you're the only one suffering becuase it will just make you mad and bitter and continue hurting you, do you really want him to have the kind of control over you. Forgiveness doesn't mean you automatically forget or that you have to take him back, it just means letting go of the hurt.
2006-12-13 19:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by Suzee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did they do in the first place? He called her to warn her is alright with me because you will just probably get into a fight which he doesn't want. I think he loves you. I'd go with forgive him.
2006-12-13 19:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Confused Loner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want him to ridicule the other girl, do you know if he ridiculed you in front of her?
Revenge goes alot of different ways. In the end is it worth it?
So balance that out with is he sincere? Do you believe in him? Do you want him back? Will he stay with you? You both sound more then a little manipulative with each other.
2006-12-13 19:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop being a ***** and forgive him, if he didn't cheat on you with this woman then why are you trippin?! even if she is mean, if you want to fight over some dumb ****, then he needs to be dumping your ***! you're everything she's not, i mean come on, you have him, he belongs to you, don't fight her cause she's his ex, if she is trying to steal him away don't even worry about it cause if this man really loves you, he'll only be with you, their over!
2006-12-13 19:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship sounds very immature.
He's with you, right.
Forgive him
2006-12-13 19:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stuff happens, i think you should forgive him, if you still like him
2006-12-13 19:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by Rachael b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive
2006-12-13 19:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by cruzer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive and forget
2006-12-13 19:47:42 · answer #10 · answered by *~Choco~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋