relationships?

Question

when things have gone very wrong between yourself and boyfriend but you feel there has always been another woman there or he has met someone do you try harder to get back with him or do you leave it to him and break off all contact? What about loosing him to the someone else if i back off and break all contact?

Answer 1

you need to find yourself!

Answer 2

I'm lucky enuff in my million or so relationships not to have been left by a man. And for another woman, no ways. However, when I have left them and they finally find another woman. Even if I am still in love with them, I do not become jealous or obsessive and try to get him back. Because, for me the defining point is when he can take another woman it means he's moved on and theres no space left for me.

Answer 3

.......And, your question is....?
(apart from a lack of punctuation which makes the reading a real problem.....)

There are no definitive answers to your dilemma(s here.

Don't - DO NOT - play games. Stick with what you feel about his behaviour, and act accordingly to them.

If you want to listen to his pleads of innocence (or guilt) and of any mitigating arguments / circumstances, then that is your choice and you can only act on what you hear as a result of it ....Again, from your feelings.

Best of luck.
Sash.

Answer 4

If it's gone wrong walk away, it's the hardest thing to do but ex's are so for a reason and you should always go forward and not back. :)

Answer 5

Trying harder usually makes them run the other way. Leave it to him, show him youre a happy.,confident, independant person.

Answer 6

Drop him like a hot potatoe.Everyone has free will.Trust your gut you're probably right,but cut him off immediately before he cyts you off.If he loves you,he search for you,if not you still have your dignity.