I always wonder which one is harder? Hope that someday, the one you love will love you back or learn to love the one who loves you now?
2006-12-13 11:30:51 · 20 answers · asked by Benj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sad that they can't be the same girl... You wouldn't be so confused.
Old song says "if you can't be with the one you love then love the one your with." I think guys sometimes can do this easier then women
2006-12-13 11:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, that's a hard one. You have to go through this life only once and you should love the one you're with the same as they love you. You are caught between a rock and a hard space. Perhaps the one you "love" isn't really love at all and it's infatuation or lust. But I don't think "learning to love" the one you're with isn't the answer either. I don't think you can learn to love anyone, it must come from the heart.
2006-12-13 19:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's a question! If you spend quality time with the one who loves you it may be a natural progression that you fall in love with him/her. However, if you got to know the one you love, you may go right off them!
2006-12-13 19:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by carnival queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wrote a story once named " The Goldfish and the buterfly".
When i finished it, i made a conclution, that ..."the one you love, is the one that loves you". That is. There are no "monologue loves" (let me tell you that i have an MBA in that topic, mologue loves i mean).
Love is reciprocal, btwn "2". Never "mono". In other case, that is not love .. could be.. infatuation, lust, crazy about, passion.. whatever .. but never love, believe me.
2006-12-13 20:12:29 · answer #4 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who loves you! Guilt is more comfortable than lonlieness. A toast to the one who will love you as much as you love them, hope you find them!
2006-12-14 02:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Skippy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Also go for the one who loves you, it is alot less work, and they will always love you as long as you remain who you are. They will never try to change you.
2006-12-13 19:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one you love
2006-12-13 21:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one you love
2006-12-13 19:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by bkewlv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously a pretty young guy. Stop obsessing over stuff like this and go have some fun! There's a lot more to life than thinking about chicks.
2006-12-13 19:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the one you love doesn't love you they will get board and cheat .
If you don't love the one who loves you, then you will in turn get board and cheat when you find someone you love.
2006-12-13 19:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by daveshere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋