Im 15. How can I get a girl to notice me without being stupid?

Answer 1

First, the problem with dating is that if you WANT to be noticed, you HAVE to be stupid... it is a competition of who has the most balls. The winner is the person who goes the farthest without embarassing the prize he seeks. It is kind of hard to explain, and the degree of embarasment depends on your quarry... but still.

Second, NEVER get into hobbies, you will NEVER get a girl because hobbies seclude you from society. You want organizations, the more organizations you are in, the more "popular" you are (More well known than "Popular") and thus increases the chances of your success.

Third, start off as friends. Yes, it sounds so counterproductive, but look at it from her perspective... you are a stranger asking her on a date, if this wasn't school that would be enough to get her to file a harrasment charge. You have to get her to know you before making your move.

Fourth, Be her freind, but be better freinds with HER friends. Girls have one rule, social life. Any decision she makes she will confer with her friends... if her friends like you, SHE will like you.

Fifth, Go the little extra... Rather obvious... But also remember not to be 'too' friendly, or you will be inoculated into her group of friends rather then her personal lover. But mind you, if you make yourself known, of your true intentions, she will catch on.


Falling in love is not the silliest thing that people do, but gravity cannot be held responsible for it. -- Albert Einstein

Answer 2

Do you and this girl have anything in common? That would be a great thing to strike up a conversation. If not find out what she is in to and ask her about it in a casual way. The thing is about girls. They like guys that are confident. Even if you are not confident then practice looking that way. You know how you look innocent to the grandparents even when you know you haven't been. Same thing here. You have to know that there is nothing wrong with you.

Make sure that you have had a shower and your clothes don't look like you have worn them to bed. Even if it isn't the hip style you will look put together which in turn will give off an hire of confidence.

Good Luck and go for it
If she turns you down when you try to talk to her then take it with a grain of salt. Don't trash talk her because it may scare off any other girls from asking you out.

Answer 3

I'm 16 and personally if some guy just came up to me and said hey baby would you like to go out? I would just laugh at him and walk off. Just go up to her and say hi and try to become friends with her, and once you know more about her and if you are still interested then ask her out on a date or something. It's always better if you're friends first!

Answer 4

Do yourself a favor and don't worry about it, buddy. I know your hormones are driving you absolutely insane right now, but it'd be better for you to concentrate on yourself. Study, work on your hobbies, improve yourself. Women are attracted to a guy who is confident in his own life, and they'll come to you. And if they don't? Who cares, you're doing fine.

Answer 5

the single element I HATE is whilst human beings use foundation conventional, particularly youthful little ones (20 and under). i comprehend it incredibly is the time once you get pimples yet heavily in simple terms conceal it with concealer. foundation is terrible to your pores and skin. it is going to weigh it down, and maximum will smash you out, whilst your pores and skin is weighed down it is going to reason it to wrinkle in improve, which skill in case you proceed with this ordinary you will likely have wrinkles once you're like 30. i do no longer see something incorrect with eyeshadow, THANK GOD you utilize A BASE/PRIMER, yet you ought to combination it nicely, this does not advise smoking it out, that in simple terms looks slutty and terrible. Eyeliner must be utilized the two by using tightlining (your larger waterline) or on your larger lash line. i myself hate whilst females do it each of ways around your eye yet i think of that a million/2 way for the duration of your decrease lash line or waterline is discover looking on your eye shape/length. Mascara is obviously something that's thoroughly tolerable, as long as you do no longer cake it on. Lipgloss is given. and blush and bronzer, whilst utilized wisely and/or with a mild hand is nice as long as you have the right coloration to your pores and skin tone. in simple terms stop wearing foundation. you do no longer opt for it. And tone down the eyeshadow if it incredibly is extreme. putting powder is super, do in simple terms no longer enable it sink into creases.

Answer 6

If you know the girl, she's already noticed you. If she hasn't, then just introduce yourself. Girls like being noticed, so if you notice her, she'll notice you.

Answer 7

well..all of you boy do stupied things to get us girls to notice you but i like it i think it is cute but some girls do not so find the girl you like and see if she likes boys going out there and being stupied....or just invite a few guy friends over they will know what to do trust me.

Answer 8

all you need to get us girls to notice you unless of course you are one of those mentally retarded or so annoying ones
is be a nice guy and just hang out and be friends with them or at least talk to them
girls arent that hard to get noticed by

Answer 9

Try to talk to her and if she ignors you don't give up or act silly just relax and give your name to her.Also be nice. Try to be cool.And if u have a friend who has a gf ask him if he can ask his gf to talk to the girl u like.

Answer 10

Be nice get social and be sure of yourself don't freak or get nervous.