let me fill you in!!! im 15 and ill be 16 in march. theres this guy that i like and he'll be 17 in feb. ive liked him for 2 years and 11 months. we properly introduced ourselves when i was 13. ive been to his house and in his room and we talked but im a christian and so is he so we dont do any naughty things. i see him 3-4 times a week and i talk to him some times. we gazed into eachothers eyes once ...litteraly. ive texted him before and even wrote him a note once. he sat buy me at his cousins house by choice.
i really like him but i dont want to tell him because i know hell reject me. im not as pretty as his cousin but im not ugly either.
i want him to like som much because i think i love him and he doesnt know.
if i dont do something soon im afraid he's going to forget about me. i know his whole family and we're all really close. his cousins and i go to the same high school and he doesnt go to the school i go to. i see him every christmas and always give him gifts. help
2006-12-13 11:21:18 · 12 answers · asked by eva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to move too fast.
You have a good relationship with him and his family,
you don't want to do something that will make everyone feel uncomfortable...I mean it's almost Christmas...
Try to set up some time to spend alone with him,
and just let him know how you really feel.
It's better to know, than to worry.
2006-12-13 11:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I don't know if you don't capitalize by choice or habit or poor grammar skills, but the fact that you never capitalize "I" makes me worry. You've obviously put a lot of thought into this, and you feel deeply for this guy. But I worry that you'll get lost in him. If you haven't tried to ask him out, and you're worried about rejection, I'd put him on hold, at least until you've realized how beautiful you are in God's eyes. Take your own value into account because nobody else is going to fill that void for you. Fill the world with positive energy: you ROCK! Don't get into ANY romantic relationship until you truly believe that God created a wonderful person when he created you, that you are totally awesome, and that you will work through Him to create a better life for other people.
Good luck--
2006-12-13 19:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't compare yourself to his cousin...he isn't (or shouldn't be) looking at her like that anyway...so it's pointless to say that she's prettier than you. And, if you have talked to him....then keep it up. There's no way to force someone to like you. But, hon...you need to tell him. If he doesn't know by the clues that you have been sending him then he's either super dense & needs a good thump on the head...or he's not interested in you like that & doesn't know how to tell you. The only way you'll know is to be brave & to ask him. Why don't you test the waters first a bit...and ask him out to lunch or something nonthreatening. Get a feel for it, and then decide what you're going to do. It's hard to put your heart on the line...but, it's part of the dating process. :)
2006-12-13 19:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For christmas, you should get him a gift or something. Attached with the gift you should give him a card and a small message inside the card. YOU COULD WRITE DOWN:
I really have been having a crush on you for 2 years and 11 months. i hope that we can go on a date.
2006-12-13 19:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by littlec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like right now he sees you as family. Try to flirt-en things up a bit by being a little more flirtatious when you see each other. He'll get the picture I bet. Just don't go over the top or he might get a bit freaked out...
2006-12-13 19:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make it obvious that you want this relatioship to go farther than it is going. It seems like you are flirting and just flirt some more, try to bring up the subject of dating. Maybe pretend that this guy asked you out and see what he says, if he is like sure than he might not like you but if he kinda doesnt know what to do and doesnt want to talk about it then he likes you. Go with your heart but it seems like he likes you too so he might also be afraid to talk you.
2006-12-13 19:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by faintmemori_eternalsunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,it sounds like you really like him.i think maybe you should just tell him you like him.i mean if you guys have known each other for that period of time,it might be a good idea.and if your really good friends you should hang out more.just see if there are any hints from him,if he likes you.but i think the best thing to do is be yourself, be honest,and dont make it awkward.(even though it might seem that way)
2006-12-13 19:27:30 · answer #7 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
and what would it matter if you werent as pretty as his cousin... does he like his cousin or something?
i say talk to him, id rather know then be with him confused about it. that would be torture
2006-12-13 19:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by mechanicalanimal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and him are very close and always have a good time together, there is no way why he would reject you.
2006-12-13 19:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by boboluv06@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really feel the way you do go for it you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!!! Good Luck and God Bless!
2006-12-13 19:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by Bradon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋