i have wanted to go out with one of my guy friends for a few months. he told me tht he likes me but went out with this other girl cuz she asked him first. he likes both of us. the past few days he's been flirting with me more than usual. today he hugged me tight and kissed me on my head and then said "i can't kiss you or else she'll be pissed"(she meaning his gf) what did he mean by this? does he want to go out with me now or what? he's still very physical with his gf but i see him looking at me a lot,even when he's with her. what does what he said mean?
2006-12-13 11:18:32 · 16 answers · asked by ♥kisses_in_the_rain♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has the hots for you, but do you want to get involved with a guy who already has someone? How serious is their relationship? How long have they been together? etc. Think very carefully before you do anything. You don't want to be with a player because he'll just end up hurting you. Make sure he really likes you and only you.
2006-12-13 11:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Miss T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he is young and doesn't really get it. If you really want to date him do this.
1. Be sweet but standoffish.
2. Hang out with his friends and your friends laugh and enjoy yourself.
3. He will keep looking your way if your eyes do meet smile but quickly look away.
4. When he says "I really do like you" tell him "but you can only date one girl at a time". From this time on treat him as a close good friend.
5. His gf will have a fight with him because he is looking and talking to you too often.
6. You console him and start dating
2006-12-13 19:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he rather have you. He is with her only because she opened the door sooner and now he is not sure if he should go for you because he may be left with no one. I suggest that you talk to him frankly and make this thing happen. If you are truly interested you must confront him and tell him that he needs to choose between the two of you. After all, you wouldn't want to lose this guy to that "other chic," would you? He can only say "yes" or "no."
Mr. M on "what does this mean."
2006-12-13 19:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means he's a dog, flirting with you keeping you on the line, but has no intention of ending things with his so called girl-friend. He's playing you both, I would stay far away and look someone else direction.
2006-12-13 19:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by fsuhen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seams to me that he likes you a lot, he just can't break up with the other girl. It is a situation where he likes you both but wants you more. Although this is may be true, he might also just be undecided on who he really likes.
2006-12-13 19:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Love Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to grow up. This guy is a creep and is trying to get whatever he can. I think you need to wait to date for a few more years. If you had any sense, you would want a committed relationship, go and find a new guy.
2006-12-13 19:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by v a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes interested in you, but doesnt want to hurt his girlfriend. If he wants to be with you, then he needs to get out of the relationship hes in now. Dont let him cheat on her with you, cause he might do the same thing to you later down the road.
2006-12-13 19:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like you more but the other girl is a lot cuter. He should go out with u not the other grl. Just spend as much time as you can with him.
2006-12-13 19:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Spartanballer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a man is really interested in a woman, you never have to guess, they let you know. This guy sounds like a player and you may be hurt by him. he is already hurting his gf, right?
2006-12-13 19:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by shotze01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he likes u,but coz u never made a move,he didnt have a choice but 2 go out with this gurl,but i mean,this gurl would be heartbroken if she knew what he was up2 so,he could do the same to u, you just gotta be careful! good luck =]
2006-12-13 19:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋