I have this woman that wants to go out with me, constantly calling and sending little postcards to my home. I made the mistake of letting her know what I'm worth and now she won't go away?
2006-12-13 10:52:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no. i wouldnt ever date anyone cause of money. girls are scandulous. just ignore her. and tell her your not gonna get her anything.
2006-12-13 10:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let the woman know up front that you have money. You two need to get to know each other for who you are, not how deep the wallet goes. Once you know her, like her, and want to have her in your life more, then ease her into what you do, how much money you have, etc. This way she learns you and loves you, not the money. If the girl is after the money, tell her to back off. I personally would not marry for money. I want love, affection, and a man that thinks I am the world... which is what I would do for him. If that comes with or without money, who cares. I know how to work and make my own money. I don't need a man in my life just for that. I want him in my life for things that have nothing to do with money and that money can't buy.
2006-12-13 11:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're very rich, DOWNPLAY your $$ worth until you get to know the person very well; don't show off $ in the beginning. Even if a woman is not a total gold digger, it still affects a woman somewhat; its human nature. Be careful about that! I'm just being honest bec I know alot of very rich people. You deserve to be sincerely loved for YOU. My loaded bf took me to DINERS and MOVIES for dates (ONLY!) in the beginning, until he trusted me & knew I was sincere. Maybe that was a little extreme, but now he has a woman (me!) that he can trust and who loves him for himself and not his $. He is careful, but an extremely intelligent man.
2006-12-13 11:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her pay while you get to play-learning the hard way that you cannot change free will,doesn't mean you have to miss out on the good stuff!!!!If she wants to accept the debt give her a run for her money!!!Show her what your really worth my baby-and have a blast while it last!!!!!!
2006-12-13 10:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by dodlydink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never date or marry for money. I have a friend who happens to be rich, but I love him for who he is in heart, and would never try to get anything out of him.
2006-12-13 11:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I wouldn't date or marry anyone for money, that only brings trouble. I want some one to date and marry for whom i am. not what i have.
2006-12-13 10:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No money is power and I don't want someone to have that kind of power over me she should want to make her own money.
2006-12-13 10:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it really a mistake letter her know or u really wanted to tell her ?
2006-12-13 10:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. I'd rather spend my time earning my own money than pleasing men.
2006-12-13 10:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may be interested in you not your money and you will never know until you talk to her -- but only if you are interested in getting to know her of course
2006-12-13 11:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋