there's this girl i consider an aquaintance and she's 23 yrs old with 2 children and her babies father wants nothing to do with his kids or her. well, i work in real estate and have been trying to find her an apt.. but still haven't cuz she's on welfare. to day she came into my office and sat for an hr waiting to pick up her kids.. while she was there i was dealing with an nimportant client.. whom she asked for a babysitter job! he told her to leave her info with me... the thing is i've been struggling with money and need this job, too... but feel guilty for asking for it, though she'll never find out. if he was interested he would have asked for her number right there, right? i know he'll give me the job if i ask cuz ni found him a nice house and he gave me great complements... should i ask him for the job. what should i do?
2006-12-13 10:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her have it. You already have one job, and because you have a job, you can easily get a second-part time job if you like. Let this woman have a chance at it first, she really needs it. Let the client know that if that woman does not work out for a babysitter, you are available.
2006-12-13 10:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U already have a job help out a sister in need come on now.. the more u give of yourself the greater your reward will be in heaven
2006-12-13 18:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you already have a job.
Your friend doesn't have a job and she's a single mom with 2 children.
What you decide to do depends on what kind of person you are....and only you know the answer to that.
2006-12-13 18:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you what to do. but they can giveyou advice, mine is that would be very nice to do since shes on welfare and have 2 children. she would be grateful to you. knowing it is very hard for a mother of 2 to get a job. maybe your important client was in a hurry, and didn't really have time to get her number or vice versa. and you already have a job. what ever you decide to do its really up to you.
2006-12-13 18:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart! According to your tone in your posting it sounds like you think you should let her have it. If that is how you feel then do it, then do it, you will be rewarded in the long run.
Do what is right,
Good Luck!
2006-12-13 19:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Daria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her take the job ? sounds like you think you "own" her, she can decide for herself
2006-12-13 18:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do. Other people do, for the most part.
2006-12-13 18:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Secrets 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋