I broke it off by text, now i feel bad.. Should i say im sorry???

Question

I broke it off by text, now i feel bad.. what to do??
I have been seeing a married guy, who has been finishing things and sorting things out, I love him like crazy and he said he feels the same. I send him this text;

I have tried to call to say this, but i want to end this thing. I hope you are happy with all. Please leave me alone, I dont want to hear from you again.

He hasnt called, and maybe he never will because i was so cold.. What do you think? What if i lost love of my life, because no other man comes close to him..We share a deep connection.

But its been like we have been trying to control our feelings, but this was the only way i found to control myself. Should i tell him im sorry?

Answer 1

Yeah, apologize. If you wanted to break up by text, thats one thing, but wording it like that, the guy could seriously be hurt if he loves you the way you love him... call him back, trust me, he'll want to hear from you

Answer 2

First off, text breakups are totally for the weak and cowardly. Step up and talk to the guy, what's the worst that can happen? He get upset? He's already going to do that but at least it will bring some closure to what was going on. If you love him, then don't break it off and try to work things out. But he is a married guy and it is morally wrong to do what you guys are doing. The only one who knows the answer that matters is you. No one on here can give you the answer because you are going to do what you want. If it's worth it, go for it but find the answer inside you and follow it.

Answer 3

hi, you answered on my question, so I thought I'd write on yours. This guy is a world class jerk, you know that. And you're right, you sound like a really nice girl. But the issue isn't him anymore, it's your std, your baby and your future. Focus on that. You need to get some professional help. Ask your clinic if there's any new treatment for the std and try to get some counselling from the local community center. You need to be wise now, and make the right moves to save your life and your baby's. He is over, history. You know he's not for you, not for anyone for that matter. Go to a friends' place maybe. What about your parents ? Everything will be okay. Have faith in yourself, be strong.

Answer 4

No, you should not say you are sorry. You should not be seeing married men.

Someone else's husband cannot be the love of your life b/c he has a wife. It doesn't matter if he is "sorting things out", the fact of the matter is he is still married.

Would you want your husband to do this to you?

Answer 5

If you have a weakness when you are around him, you did the right thing. Don't feel bad. He doesn't. Don't worry, you aren't the only one in his life. He'll just run off to the next girl in line.
He's not finishing anything. He just tells you that to keep you around. Sorry, I know it's a mean game but that's what cheaters do.

Answer 6

I really don't know. What do you want to happen? Go from there. If you want him to leave you alone then don't. If you want to get back together, you could try. Personally, I feel text or phone are really harsh and impersonal ways to break up. If it were me, I wouldn't want to be with you for that reason alone.

Answer 7

not to be mean but first of all you never break up withone by text you have no heart hopefully he dont want your sorry apologie thats messed up second of all you wrong for messing with a married man but im glad you called it off and how can he be the love of your life he was married

Answer 8

Well, it's like this -

It's completely over - not a chance in hell will he ever get back with you - If you feel for your sake of feeling OK with what you have done, you should say sorry - then do it.

Otherwise leave it alone - and move along

Answer 9

yes it was cold, breaking up with him over text, but hes a married man, and you shouldnt of messed around with him in the first place. many may say it was slutty, but you cant help who you fall in love with. And the answer to your question is no you shouldnt say sorry. your relationship should have never started. maybe you should apologize to his wife instead.

Answer 10

the guy is married. If he loved you he would have filed for a divorce. This does not say much for him to be messing around on his wife. I think you did the right thing. it went quietly and no one got hurt but the two guilty parties.