My ex and I broke up about a month ago and she told me at the break up and throughout this time that she wants to work on our friendship. She broke up with me and I have been trying very hard to be her friend. She told me there was still a very strong physical attraction (on her end) but she still wanted to talk, however not see each other. (She wants to fool around and I want to have a relationship) I have tried to email her once 3 weeks ago, we inadvertently met in person 2 weeks ago, and it was awkward but I though manageable. She stated she wanted to grab coffee sometime and catch up but when I called her (a week ago); she did not return my call. I sent her a Christmas card on Monday and she will get it today. I did not say much in it only the generic happy holidays and signed it with "take care". I just get the impression that she doesn't want to be my friend. I asked if she needed more time and she "said" the contact was fine. What am I missing and what should I do?
2006-12-13 10:24:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not try to be friends.
If one of your guy friends hurt you or did you wrong, would you want to continue to be friends with him? Probably not. Don't be friends with this girl.
Here's what she is doing: She wants to be "friends" with you so that if she doesn't find someone else via her "fooling around" she will have you to come back to.
You should move on. The world is full of women for you to date.
2006-12-13 10:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by LatinaAlumna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are missing is the face to face interaction. You really should have grabbed the chance she offered for coffee and said "Whatta bought now". You could have given her the card at her door. Everything is so damn im personal these days
2006-12-13 10:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have been on your shoes previously, so i comprehend the type you fill. that's what I did? I wouls tel him how I felt and went to pass see him daily whilst i'd desire to . i did no longer enable something stand in my way of my ultimate chum and that i.
2016-10-05 06:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE LIED TO YOU, SHE HAS SOMEONE THAT IS WHY SHE DON'T HAVE TIME FOR YOU. MOVE ON SHE HAS, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING ON. GET YOURSELF A GIRLFRIEND AND GO OUT LIKE SHE IS DOING. STOP RUNNING BEHIND HER, SHE HAS A NEW FRIEND NOW. SHE CAN'T BE ALL OF THAT BECAUSE SHE WALKED AWAY FORM YOU AND I'M SURE YOU ARE THE "MAN".
2006-12-13 10:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she obviously does not want to be in a relationship anymore and perhaps she thinks that if she sees you as a friend..it might go back into a relationship. not all couples that separated stay friends. try to explain to her how you feel and that you just want to be friends
2006-12-13 10:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is an awkward time for her too. just because she is still physically attracted to you doesn't mean that she doesn't feel weird when you too get together. just give it time and give her time as well.
2006-12-13 10:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-13 10:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she doesn´t sound very nice...kinda bitchy...
2006-12-13 10:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋