I have been going out with this guy for about 2 weeks. i dont like him. I AM IN LOVE WITH HIS FRIEND! My mother got mad last time i broke up with my bf after one week. How the heck am i supposed to tell my mom, break up with him, and snatch the other guy???
PLEASE HELP!!!!
thxxxxx
2006-12-13 10:18:23 · 19 answers · asked by roseee 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u should come up with some kinda strategy, because ur relationship doesnt last for long, MAX 2 weeks.
so heres wt's gonna happen. u'll dump this guy, for no reason.
and u'll date the other one. for 2 or 3 weeks probably. then someone else will show up. and then u have to dump that last guy.
u see
u have to have a strategy for future dating.
one last thing off the record.
DONT U EVER BREAK SOMEONES HEART JUST BECAUSE OF UR SELFISHNESS
2006-12-13 10:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seriously just tell him it's not doing it for you and you just want to be friends or whatever. Don't be mean, but let him know what's up. How to break up is an important thing to learn and you're probably going to have to do more of it in the future.
It will hurt everybody involved much less (you included) if you're straight up about it and don't lead anybody on.
2006-12-13 10:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by trufflestomper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about making sure you know what you want to before you "go" with a boyfriend? There's nothing wrong with dating and keeping your options open. You can break up with your current guy, but that doesn't mean you'll get the other guy. Just so you know.
2006-12-13 10:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like how some people say "dump" even when the person they plan on breaking up with hasn't done anything wrong. Don't DUMP him, just kindly tell him that you would like to end things between the two of you.
2006-12-13 10:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says it truly is? I listen no longer in problem-free words adult males dis women for dumping a guy yet women are more effective than chuffed to leap on that bandwagon too. Or am I imagining what purely befell to Kristen Stewart???
2016-11-26 01:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First how old are you??? and if you don't like this guy then break up with him...your mom should not be the reason why you are going out with someone...it should be because of what you feel...
2006-12-13 10:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't dump him? Are you surgically attached? If not, then you CAN dump him. As for your mom, she'll get over it. Instead of jumping into relationships try getting to know people. This will save you from wanting to dump them so soon.
2006-12-13 10:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by Desiree W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well,,
1st dont tell ur mom!
2nd its not fair to him if u are in love w/ his friend
so u need to break up with him
if u have to give him THE line "i still wanna be friends"
then find out if his friends likes u wait a while (b/c u dont wanna look like a slut) then u can go out with his friend
2006-12-13 10:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you seem desparate. not to be rude,but you do. if you dont like this guy, just explain to your mom that you made a mistake in judging this guy. as for getting the other guy, dont know what to tell you except, give it at least a few days. AT LEAST.
2006-12-13 10:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by mr. answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom to shut up and dump the guy. You can do whatever you want, your mom has no right to interfere with your social life
2006-12-13 10:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋