it hurts soo bad. at one time there was one other guy that i loved but he was killed in a car accident and ever since that i hadnt really dated, then i met this guy about two years ago and i've loved him ever since, and now he's not talking to me because i finally got the damn courage to tell him and he hangs up on me..
what should i do??? should i give him time and wait to contact him again or what??
2006-12-13 10:18:10 · 9 answers · asked by becccaa<333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my gawd gurl!!! i am so sorry!!! *virtual hugs and kisses*
what a hard time to be going through! if he is acting like this, then he isn´t mature enough and he doesn´t have enough courage...you need someone with equal courage to yourself...maybe the guy is really nice, but just scared...guys don´t think the same as girls...he might be extremely confused and not know how to handle the situation -- it has nothing to do with whether he likes you back or not...how he acts...
how long has it been since he stopped talking to you? if it has only been a few days, lighten up a little but if it has been more than a week and a half then you should just continue about your life and if he wants to reenter he is free to...
good luck
sorry bout your situation:S
xao:)
2006-12-13 10:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him instead of asking us. You need to say when I told you I loved you, why did that push you away? But it sounds like it might be hard for you to talk to him now, with him hanging up on you. If it is hard to talk to him leave voice mail in tell him and also tell him way your talking to voice mail instead in person. If and when you do that and if he don't call you back I would try one more time. And again if he don't call back or see you I would leave him alone. After 2-weeks if you didn't hear from him, I would call him again and let him know your not going to wait forever. And if a month goes by I would go on with my life. But don't that make you think that he was seeing someone ?
2006-12-13 18:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well after 2 yrs he should know if he loves you. I would give him one last chance and lay your cards on the table for him. If he does not respond you will have to go through what we all go through at some point in our lives but you will be fine and it will get better every day once you know the truth
2006-12-13 18:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by harwags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should love someone who is worthwhile and understands what love is.
Even if a person dosen't love you back, its just rude and horrible to to acknowledge someone's love the way he did.
I am sorry this happened to you.
2006-12-13 18:23:49 · answer #4 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You scared the s*** out of him. May be he wasn't ready. Phone him and ask if he feels you were moving too fast.
2006-12-13 18:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-13 18:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You scared him off, back off for a while, if its meant to happen it will.
2006-12-13 18:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by TOO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it but he doesn't love you.
2006-12-13 18:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by skip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't love you get another boyfreind.
2006-12-13 18:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋