She knows what i wants .Whats ex's deal? confuse? never played games be4. doesing she know what she wants?

Question

Me and her have been together for 4 yrs out of nowhere she wants out of the relationship. I let her go. She comes back 2 wk later and wants back. After that she breaks up w/ me agian two wk later she calls me and wants help. I help her and we are still acting like a couple. She doesnt know what she wants. I ask if she wants back she says yes. I say lets take it slow. She agrees two days later i met up w/ her 4 lunch she say we seem more like friends. OK so i go up to her place later that night and i tell her how i feel, that i want to marry her and she in my eyes was the only girl 4 me. I also tell her i think she doesnt know what she wants. She agrees She says right now we are friends but more i dunno she says. We both decide we need our space from each other. The whole time we are flirting and laughing at each other as though nothing is wrong. We both 20 and 21 i can understand if she wants figure her self out be4 pursueing the relationship if that is what it is. What is going on?

Answer 1

She sounds all to much like me! She wont stay with you if she does she will cheat I'm not saying i did but i almost did! But now i realise i do love him after i almost cheated on my bf, I'm glad i didn't though maybe She will realise she loves you maybe she wont i guess all i can say is only time will tell. Just end it if you think its the rite thing to do.

Answer 2

Has she been with other ppl before? If its her first serious relationship, then maybe she just wants a chance to see what is out there... If not, then she is acting kind of shady. Sometimes girls dont know what they want. Another thing is maybe she wants to let it go, but you guys have been together too long to where she can't just let it go. Its hard to move on once you are attached to someone. My advice is to talk to her. If she wants space, give it to her, and tell her to call you when she has decided on what to do because the off-and-on stuff isnt doing either of yall any favors.

Answer 3

Dump her for good and get on with your life. Sounds like both of you need to mature a little.