I am 33 (and very experienced!) and he is 40 and was previously married. He is attractive and nice and I was quite disappointed when we kissed and I got the "everlasting tongue spiral"-type kiss. This is not the worst type of kiss, and I'm sure it's fixable... but I'm not sure about how to go about letting him know I need a little more artistry and variation. Should I make it into a game (like a kissing Simon Says)? Should I tell him straight up that I like a different type of kissing? Like I said, I'm in my 30's and don't want to scare him away - I really like him - but I know what a good kiss is and this ain't it! HELP! (Suggestions from 30's-40's men would be greatly appreciated.)
2006-12-13 10:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what you like, but in a matter-of-fact sort of way, then SHOW HIM! He'll catch on.
2006-12-13 10:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by dazed&confused81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just met him, maybe slow down and get into a more secure, comfortable relationship first before telling him you dislike his kissing, or asking him to change. If kissing is more important to you than who he is inside, find another guy. I get the feeling you won't be happy with this guy.
2006-12-13 18:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is not mature enough to take constructive advice of this nature
then you don't want a relationship with him...
2006-12-13 18:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him, if he is a good man he will understand and try to work with you
2006-12-13 18:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by TOO MUCH TO THINK ABOUT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make suggestions to him. if you lose him so be it. would you want to be with someone you cant even make a suggestion to. show him what you like and see how he reacts.
2006-12-13 18:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by avalon123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋