My boyfriend has a topless image of a colleague on his laptop which he took on a work trip abroad and uploaded from his mobile phone. He says it was just a joke?? He also joined a website called flirtomatic and wrote dirty messages to girls. Is this all meaningless or is he a love rat?
2006-12-13 10:00:19 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The funny thing is that anytime someone writes "do I dump him" or "should I stay with him" I can always guarantee that the guy did something wrong enough to warrant a major, for sure and for good dumping.
Sorry, but NOBODY has pictures of a coworkers *t**i**t**s* as a joke and Flirtomatic????
What gives you any indication that he is a good guy to keep in your life?
You already know the answer to your question. Just do it!
2006-12-13 10:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by ssssss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 05:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The website thing I could understand, it's anonymous. The colleague, I believe, is hard to forgive. If he's seeing naked girls in person, I would seriously consider a break at least, and probably ending it. If he doesn't see anything with what he did, then going one more step should be fairly guilt-free for him as well. Just remember, protect yourself first, worry about his feelings later.
2006-12-13 10:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by krusher84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I caught my husband on those websites & i went off on him & told him it was wrong & he said it was just flirting I told him no it was disrespectful & wrong. He put a stop to it. If he respects you & cares then he would stop & apologize a topless female is not a joke & certainly not harmless fun I would question the relationship between the colleague & him.
2006-12-13 10:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by smith92069 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! I just found out a friends wife was having an affair with a work colleague! Sounds like he wants to get caught or something! Dump his ***!
2006-12-13 10:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by Rodney J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter cause sex is nature but thats telling you he still roaming around and you is not enough SO what i really mean is that he want more than one women and that is up to you to move on you have to say to your self do you want your man with other women if not let him go cause i guy will tell you anything and also what you want to hear so you should move on and look for some one that want flirt with other girls on the internet cause i'm on adultfinder and i'm a girl looking for other girls to meet and you do get the chance to meet people and person
2006-12-13 10:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb he gets really horny a lot of the time. when he's not with u, he may feel that the only thing he can do is to try to continue being horny. a lot of guys do it. it not only makes them feel sexual, but it's like it's making them whole again as it gives them a kinda sense of pleasure to pass the stage of being horny. i know heaps of guys who have girlfriends that go on websites and chat up to all these women just to try and get pleasure out of it and they say that they are really horny and that's y they do it. try paying a little more attention to him in a sexual way without overdoing it and see what happens. if he ignores or just doesnt take much interest in u, then u can consider dumping him.
2006-12-13 10:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you need to dump him. My mom has been in a lot of realsionships so I think I would no Do no t fall for his exuses. And the way it sound flirtomatic.com is some kind of dating site girl don no tbe hurt dump him and move on with your life. YOu do not need guys like that.
2006-12-13 10:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by monkeymackenzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the coleague is a girl, then this could be a problem. I would talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he stops, then he obviously shows that he cares for ya. If he doesn't and you have to tell him several times, then ya, its time to move on, he may be cheating at that point. Hope this helps.
Wee Man.
2006-12-13 10:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by boychuka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont dump him. Some men need other women to get them in the mood. It doesnt mean that what they feel for you isnt real. They just need more sexual aide then some men.. Its no big deal.. At least you know he is bisexual and doesnt jack off daily.
2006-12-15 09:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋