I've been after this girl for about 3 years, she goes through boys like the wind, which I dislike, I believe in a slow, long relationship where we move on slowly and get closer, I dont think she's had a long relationship. I hope to be the first guy to show her what a single date is (not with like a hundred of her other friend mates!)
She's very good at hiding her feelings, she gives me good vibes and I start a small flirt in hopes of giving her a hint that I get the message, and then she'll give me a 'Back off!' vibe, and I'll feel confused. I've learnt she likes to know a guy likes her when they squeeze her ****. I've asked her out before, she's turned me down, I'm now stuck in the friends zone which is a ***** to get out of. But I'm not quitting, the more I learn about her the more she's the perfect girl I dreamed of! How do I get her to like me? How do I get that first date alone with her? How do I get her to consider her first long relationship? (although I've never had one!)
2006-12-13 09:38:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My one worry, is I feel she wont go out with me because I've never get hold of someone. She has plenty of times, also, she's dumped a boy before now for being a bad kisser, I feel under pressure that if I'm bad then she'll dump me for it, and that because I havent got hold of someone she wont go out with me anyway, cause shes probably only interested in a good kisser!
2006-12-13 09:39:10 · update #1
I'm sorry to let you know this, but this could never work out.
You sound fairly respectable, even though you say you "have been after this girl", which I find slightly degrading, as if women are a game or a prize.
She sounds shallow, vain, and so sucked into sex and physical relationships that she could never appreciate you the way you'd like. Being friends is far more important than being "lovers" anyway, be glad she can call you that. Be careful with girls like her, I don't care how pretty they appear, if they act like she does, they aren't worth your time and eventual heartbreak.
~Best luck~
2006-12-13 09:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can this girl be the one of your dreams if after all this time she still has not consented to go out with you AND she is a man eater--think about this --lets say she does say she will go out with you --You will be on top of the world --and then she moves on (she will) because that's what she does--you said so she goes through guys like water--You have invested 3 years trying to get her attention and frankly you have wasted 2 and a half years --six months is totally enough time to figure out she is a player and you are not what she wants to play with--guys are toys with this one --you sound like a nice person that deserves to be considered as a faithful friend and lover not one to be used and thrown away --find a gal you can take home to your parents one that will make a life you will be proud of --
God Bless you and the one that finds you --she is out there start looking outside the box
2006-12-13 17:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright sugar bean, I want you to really listen to what I'm saying. I'm guessing your young.
You seem like a very nice guy, but this girl your attracted to has no interest in you. This is a girl who voices openly she likes it when guys grab her behind, a girl who has no commitment to the boys she dates & just breezes through them, a girl who dumped a guy for being a bad kisser. Doesn't sound much like a quality woman. she sounds like someone who wants to be taken advantage of & who does her own fair share of taking advantage of others. I could tell you how to get a girl like this, but I don't think it would do you any good to know, because she's not worth the time.
I don't think you want to hear this but my advice is to cut communication & move on, try to find a nice girl.
2006-12-13 17:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Little Nell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just don't understand it there is probably a girl that really likes you and doesn't think that she is the queen of the world. Why do guys go for the girls that they have to work over time to get?? Leave her alone because from what you said she doesn't seem like she's worth it. Sorry usually my answers are really nice but read your question over and she what she is doing to you.
2006-12-13 17:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Shorta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to bust your bubble but you are barking up a blind alley. She is not into you that much. Good luck you are going to need it.
2006-12-13 17:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might like her but i think she is not the one for u. she sounds really control. but if u like her try flirting with her more
2006-12-13 17:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's sounds like a sl*t.
2006-12-13 17:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Bob_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a tease.. Fine someone else.
2006-12-13 17:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be like.. wana go to a movie w/ me and some ppl? and then when you actually go. be like. they couldn't make it. and it's just you two
2006-12-13 17:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by mindi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck to you.
2006-12-13 17:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋