There is this girl that I really like. She is nice and attractive. I think I started to like her when one day, her ex-boyfriend was with her in the library. He kept calling me, over and over again. She told him to leave me alone every time he tried to bother me. She said hi to me, and I said hi back, but I had to go somewhere, so I couldn't really talk that long. I am friends with that kid, even though he is annoying, and my best friend went out with her for quite a while. I don't see her that often, though. see her sometimes walking around outside after school, and sometimes at my lunch, but she I probably sitting near some annoying kids. How do I start to talk to her? What should I do?
2006-12-13 09:36:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself, have confidence in who you are and it will happen naturally. You can start just by talking small talk and then work up to asking her to hang out ("hang out" is a better word than "date" because some girls would get scared away by a real date. By "hanging out" first as friends she can get to know you better and you will have the chance to see if she is interested in going further in the relationship.
2006-12-13 09:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Citygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't go out with ex gfs of my friends not even in high school. But presuming you are in high school I guess it's fine for you. Anyways, first rule, DO NOT ATTEMPT TO INTERPRET her. Just be confident and go up to her when your friends or her friends are not around, and just say this: "hey I don't have much plans after school, let's go get some snack/coffee and hangout." That is as simple and relaxing suggestion you can intiate . From there you can start getting to know each other and perhaps even bring up hanging out on the weekends. NEVER SAY the word DATE! The formula is the more you communicate and hangout the more she has no choice but to NOTICE YOU. But never have your friends or hers to come along , that's too much distraction and the point is you want her to NOTICE YOU right?
2006-12-13 17:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by chaseki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting someone to notice you is hard. But, you have to take inconsideration some of these other answers! If she said "hi!" that doesn't mean she likes you!!! Also, when you see her walking outside after school - walk up to her! Be Confident! And, get to know her! Don't ask her out the first time you talk !!! Don't!!! Become ... hmm... somewhat .. friends then one day ask her out. Don't be too close of friends b/c then it might not be able to turn into a relationship....
If you build up that confidence hidden in you - other people will take notice. 100% fo
sho!
2006-12-13 17:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I'll tell you what darling. this isnt too hard! What is she into? What's her favorite activity? Does she play any sports? If so, invite her over to watch a game. Are you two old enough to drink? Then ask her out for one. Does she drink coffee?
The thing is brother, women like one thing: CONFIDENCE.
TELL HER you're interested. Whats the worst that can happen??? She tells your she's not? Who cares? There are plenty of fish in the sea. But chances are, she'll tell you she likes you too, and then that would be great!!! If you DON'T tell her, she'll never know, and you'l never know what could have been! Go for it!!!
2006-12-13 17:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by michellerose_barkley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get her attention won't be hard if you already know her. Just letting her know how you feel about her is the problem. So what you should do is just start off the conversation by saying hi or how you doing? Maybe you could pretend that you forgot you homework if you guys are in the same class. That works all the time. Try something!
2006-12-13 17:41:14 · answer #5 · answered by a.j. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look. if you really do like her then just talk w/ her. try to get to know her and become better friends. the key is to have a strong friendship going before a relationship. just try to ignore the dude. at lunch just keep on saying hi and hi untill you start talking more and more. it may take a long time but its plenty worth it. good luck. im with ya all the way!!!
2006-12-13 17:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky. I'd find something that you have in common and build on that. Or just go up to her and talk about almost anything. It's not easy for some, but if you act natural and confident you can't go too far wrong. Without knowing more about your situation it's difficult to say exactly what you should do, but good luck with whatever you decide to try.
2006-12-13 17:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by glitch712 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u could try just casually sayin hi one day and make small talk cuz that is what most guys i know do or...
u could go all out and plan something, mmm like drop a book in front of her or something and see if she returns it...
if u know any of her friends or if any of ur friends know her see if they want to do something some time like catch a movie or something...start by just trying to get to know her...good luck!
2006-12-13 17:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her how she is and ask her questions where you will not get a "yes" or " no" answer. if she does answer like that then im afraid she aint interested.However if she give's you good answers and returns the question then grab your bag you've pulled wahhey.
1.Remember you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
2.Getting a knock back is perfectly normal and we all experience them sometime.its what make's life that bit more interesting
3. GOODLUCK
2006-12-13 17:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by sherminator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her know. Try to be her friend, get closer to her by doing that. Also I would let her know how you feel after you have been hanging around her enoug and feel comfortable. I hope this gives you some ideas. Good Luck.
2006-12-13 17:40:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋