We were together 2 yrs and recently broke up. I want him back but he keeps sayin its how it has to be, we broke up cause his parents are dumb and dont like me cause im a quiet person, they thought i was just rude! I have to go to his house today to get some of my things and i am getting my hair done before i go so i will look hot as lol should i jus act like i dont care bout him anymore and like im over it?
2006-12-13 09:27:06 · 5 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just move on you don't want to be in a one sided relationship just grab your stuff, let him see how good you look and just move on leaving him seeing what he's gonna be missing out on.
2006-12-13 09:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be honest. With yourself, and with him. Honest, but not accusative.
You don't have to hide your feelings, but you don't have to make it a point make a big deal of it either.
This guys sounds young (and so do you). Believe it or not, there are a lot of guys out there. Guys with good families. It's hard enough to be in a couple when both people are deeply in love. It's hard enough to be in this kind of relationship without the support of in-laws. But if you don't have support nor do you have an incredibly strong relationship with your SO, it's an equation for disaster. It's like trying to hold up a bridge without rivets.
Get your things, feel the pain you feel. And even tell him flat out, "this sucks. I still feel for you, even though I know this is the right thing. It's going to take me a while to get over this." if you feel that you need to say something.
Then turn to something else and focus your energy on the things you love to do. If all you have in your life is your guy, and without him, there's nothing, that is a serious wake-up call for you to figure out who you are. It means that you don't have your own life.
So, make your own life, figure out what it is, and focus on that. Then the pain of losing him will be easier to get over, and it'll be easier next time to find a guy who is a better match for you.
Good luck!
2006-12-13 09:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by TammyT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about those who made you sad. Forget about those who made you mad. But do not forget about those who made you glad.
I think his parents are nonsense. Move on and forget about him. Or fight and compete and prove to his parents that you are a better person if you really wanna get with your ex.
2006-12-13 09:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get your things and leave without engaging in conversation. His parents control him.
2006-12-13 09:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go get your stuff and find out what he will do then u can make your decision
2006-12-13 09:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋