Ok Ladies I know this has been asked time and time again. Women always go for the bad boys, but there are also those of us that have the bad side to us. What makes them that more attractive? Is it the fact that they through caution to the wind and don't care about tomorrow? Some insight would help here
2006-12-13 09:14:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like guys with a good personality...
2006-12-13 09:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the bad boys are choose from females in her teens/early adulthood as they are not quite mature yet and not sure where they are heading or what they want out of life so they go with the fly by and where the excitement is.In some cases you see the female going for the bad boy cause she thinks he is cute and that sometimes means more to them.Some girls would rather go around and "say" look at this hotty I got, til they see who this bad boy really is,usually an asshole.
Females in the actual adulthood know what she wants and where she is going in life and looks for the more important qualities the guy has such as personality and attitude and what he has to offer,along with the importance that he knows where and what he wants in life then the bad boy image just seems stupid and figures out that all they want out of "bad boy" is to have excitement in their lives which a man can provide in a good way which is usually those silly little things they do with the child at heart.
There is no reason to go out and try to have the "bad boy" image or try being someone you are not cause when the right one comes along you will know it.Sometimes it happens when you least expect it as they notice you when you are not trying to be noticed as that is the time you are being the true you and then you know she must be attracted for you and who you are.
2006-12-13 09:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may seem as though women always go for the "bad boy" type; a lot of them do. But to be quite honest with you, the women that go for that type really aren't the kind of women worth the effort. Those women are attracted to chaos because that's what they have in their own lives; it's almost an addiction.
Sure, if you're only looking for a one night stand then go for it. But if you're looking for someone long term whom is respectable and decent, then give it time and be yourself. The right one will come along and you'll be happy you waited for her. And the best thing about it will be the fact that she's attracted to YOU, not some fake character you're thrying to be.
Good luck!
2006-12-13 09:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by Shellbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like trees too dude
On that note I would say that yes the bad boy just wants it now and that is what most women are looking for the ones that want the real deal will skip the bad boys and go for Mr Right 4 Life
2006-12-13 09:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like being rescued and protected.. Not all women go for the bad boys.. I went for all the bad boys when I was younger, and believe me, would NEVER go out with one again. It's the rebel image and the fact they make a girls heart race that makes them so appealing - but at the end of the day, these are the guys that all the girls complain about to nice guys like you! We get over it with age and maturity.. Go for an older woman!! Hope this helped.
2006-12-13 09:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by axix9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I prefer the nice guys, although they can't be too good to be true either! No girl likes bad boys, girls are usually attracted to them because 9 times out of 10, they're good looking, and they tend to treat girls like crap because they know they can get away with it. Some girls will put up with anything if the guy is good looking. Its sad really.
2006-12-13 09:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by Megafunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that the wild side of a guy shows the lady a sense of protection that she needs. Show your wild side a little more but do the same in school. You don't want to totally change so a girl will like you. Just tweek your wild side a little.
2006-12-13 09:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for me to get with a guy they have to have a little rebel in them..... i love being able to be spontanious with my boyfriends and getting out into trouble without gettin caught-- it's a rush, and who better to do it with then the one you love. but they don't need to be like that all the time-- that would be a bit overwhelming! but i really know how to have a good time, i'm a very kick back kind of girl and if we get along, we'd have some of the best times around. granted there are those moments where girls just want the bad boy-- mostly because they themselves are having a rebel streak and need someone to go with them...... mostly it's about balance- and how each girl portrays it..... i like my men evenly sided with sweet and saucey
2006-12-13 09:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer Mr. Right When I Need Him, as in a FwB. In my world, there IS no Mr. Right. I may be Ms. Right, but my first name is Always.
2006-12-13 10:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
those girls are just horny and not worth your time
you'll find a girl
2006-12-13 09:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋