ok we have been dating for 3 months but are not official yet, and he freaks out if i am even hanging out with a guy friend!... is he psycho or should i not be talking to other guys...?
2006-12-13 09:09:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is insecure and controlling, leave him and move on, no one should be controlled by anybody and he should lighten up and realize that these people were your friends before him and will be there after him...
2006-12-13 09:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about the matter, ask him if he doesnt trust you with other guys, ask him to be honest about the matter, make him know that your not to gether yet so how could you treat on him and that if you guys work out good your not going to cheat on him, tell him to stop acting like your oficial yet, tell him he can trust you. Because if he doesnt, its not going to work out so good because one of the things a relashionship revolves around is trust.
2006-12-13 09:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first, if you've been dating for 3 mths. you should respect him enough to not talk or hang out w/ other guys, would u want him doing that to u? if u still talk to other guys, maybe u should re-evaluate if u even want to be tied down in a relationship or not at this time.
2006-12-13 09:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy should not be telling you what to do, and if you want to hang out with your guy friends you should. He should understand it even if you were for sure dating it should be ok!! He obviously don't trust you. You could do better!!!
2006-12-13 09:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by ashley k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if after 3 months your still not official then you must know by now that something is not right with him he is very jealous and if he starts now its only going to get worse. think twice before making a commitment with this one.
2006-12-13 09:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lara <:(((>< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes being a little extreme. generally, guys who go all possessive an jealous over small things mean bad business. you may want to talk to him about it. he's not necessarily psycho, he may just be insecure.
2006-12-13 09:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Vae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone has to have friends. and guys are friends just like girls are. you need to either tell him to get his **** straight because you're not going to stop talking to your friends or let him go. on the other hand, if you are doing things with your guy friends, that are disrespectful and you wouldn't want him doing with his girl friends, then maybe you should rethink what you're doing.
2006-12-13 09:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by lildrumagrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm like that too. I not too comfortable when my g/f hangs out with her 'guy' friends. If you really want him, then don't talk to other guys.
2006-12-13 09:13:15 · answer #8 · answered by Bob_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playin mind games...by actin controllin over u like a boyfriend to make u think he cares, and making sure u dont talk to other guys because he is just very selfish...but he still may not want to commit to a relationship...he is a male with a huge ego who probably thinks its okay to talk to other women, but doesn't want u to talk to other guys....it doesn't necessarily mean he cares, it could mean he's greedy...either way he's an as*hole!
2006-12-13 09:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say he is not a phico he might really like u look at ur self in the mirror u might be beautiful and he dont want to loose u if u really want him than u should tell him he should trust u and if he cant trust u than leave him alone
2006-12-13 09:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by ashlee b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is clearly immature. You have every right to talk to any guy you want! If he can't respect that, you should not be with him. Good luck!
2006-12-13 09:13:10 · answer #11 · answered by maj2001gma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋