WHY CANT A MEN BE HAPPY WITH A WOMEN WITH FEELING LIKE HE NEEDS TO CHEAT?
2006-12-13 09:02:18 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boss told me this one and I'll be obliged to share it with you:
"I only lie to keep myself out of trouble or to keep from hurting someone's feelings."
2006-12-13 09:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men lie for the same reason women lie! To protect themselves period. Men can be happy with a woman but after a while they have the need for someone elso just out of ( I want to try that too) like little kids eating candy, they want to try all flavors. It is in there nature barnone. The ones that say " oh not them" are lieing. So in the end all of it is a lie. Women are the same way. They lie and cheat and such. If not, then think of it all the time. It is human nature, and it is best not to be all hung up about it because it will not change because it upsets you. New relationships are great for a while but nothing lasts forever, do not forget that, NOTHING LASTS FOREVER! I hope I did not upset you, that was not my attention, be well.
2006-12-13 09:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone lies, it's not because of a gender. As for cheating, it's in the man's human nature to spread his seed. We are all animals. We smell and communicate better than most, but the fact is we cannot escape our born desire to procreate.
Many men, such as myself, suppress the urge because we feel morally obligated to be faithful to one person. Those of us that have never cheated on anyone before still find other women attractive and wish we could be with them now and then. The fact that we don't is part of what separates us from the typical animal.
2006-12-13 09:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, everyone lies. Men suffer the same stuff we do when girls cheat on them.
Sometimes men feel like we don't give them enough, so they go to find better elsewhere, but you might be the one paying the bills. Everyone has different reasons, and the worst part is...they know how much it will hurt us, the innocent people who they cheat on.
It's absolutely horrible. Those who perform adultery have things going on in their heads that people living on the outside think is disgusting and positively illogical. It's so sad to know that so many people cheat on their boyfriends/girlfriends and spouses.
2006-12-13 09:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Tawny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many men are good why must woman clump all men into this category, some men cheat and some woman cheat trust me it will always be this way and it's sad, if you were cheated on then leave him and find someone else who is better to you
2006-12-13 09:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It`s not just men that cheat. Women cheat as well. Ultimately, it is down to the individuals` choice. If you choose to cheat, then you will. It is your own will.
Not simply an attribute to *all men* or *all women*.
2006-12-13 09:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ateviel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everbody lies. But to answer your question because they are so much good looking women they want switch but love the other one to so they cheat to get both of what they want, or they are not getting enough from the other woman but still want what they can get from them but want more to. And it depends on the women. And not "all" men lie, and woman cheat to.
2006-12-13 09:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I find that women lie much more than men. But to answer your question. - men cheat because they are bored with their wife. The reason is this: a man marries a woman, generally thinking she will never love anyone but him, so he is easily bored.
A woman is never that sure of her man, consequently, she does not become bored so easily.
Remember this - "Passions are dimmed by trust."
2006-12-13 09:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Dinman83 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why can't a man climb only one mountain to feel the victory and conquest....Why does he have to find new mountains to climb. Perhaps it is a genetic thing cuz women are rendered incapable of reproduction for 9 months when preggo man keeps on doing what he has to do (programmed) propagating the human race like the big guy said...GO forth AND multiply....That could be one reason....
2006-12-13 09:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by ray b 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a man lies and cheats, he is doing it with someone else, right? Then why is the man just the cheater? The woman that is cheating with him is just as much a liar and cheater as he is. Regardless of whether the other party is single or with someone, she is still just as responsible as the husband/boyfriend, just a guilty, just as much a cheater and liar as he is.
If you allow him to continue doing this to you, than you have no one else to blame but yourself, it will just make you feel bad, and destroy your self worth. Do yourself a favor, and stand up for the most important living individual in your life YOU.
2006-12-13 09:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by deanie1962 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have no idea, seen some women the same way. change the kind of men you've been seeing. maybe a different scene of guys.......believe it or not....there are some descent guys left, just hard to find! then again, a descent person in a relationship is few and far between! [also, to many wh***'s out there throwing their weight around...]
2006-12-13 09:08:53 · answer #11 · answered by Melissa Y 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋