I know he's my mom's husband and all, but I can't help it. I want to make my move, but I'm not sure when, where, or how. Any one have any ideas how to get my mom out of the picture to make this work?
2006-12-13 08:54:00 · 35 answers · asked by Joane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jerry, Jerry, Jerry....
2006-12-13 08:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you really have deep feelings for him but don't hurt your mom to be with her man. Try to stick with single men around your age. Don't hurt your mother even though you can't help yourself from falling for him. There are tons of men out there that are looking for single women too so don't ruin the relationship with you and your mom, try to find a new man. Hope this helps. Good luck!!
2006-12-13 09:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you should step down... He's your mom's husband... Not your's. You should support your mom and be happy for her. Not try to hurt her. You are probably young and there are PLENTY of single guys out there.. Trust me--it's not wise to make any move with your step-dad.
2006-12-13 09:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by :)Smile(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oi vey..... Honey, YOU control your hormones, your hormones don't control you. You very well know what the right decision is. Is it worth it to you to destroy 3+ lives just because your Daddy makes you wet ? If you do anything to initiate this, I can promise you that you will obliterate your relationship with your mom and probably the rest of your family. Is that what you really want?
2006-12-13 09:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not worth losing your mother. There are too many men out there to have to go after your mom's man, (your stepDAD).
2006-12-13 08:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by phgl83 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let it go because it will only bring you trouble and grief.Find someone you can trust like a clergyman,teacher or an older friend and get their advice.Don`t wait too long because it will only get worse.GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-13 09:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by liseb_98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should move out of the house and leave your Mother alone
2006-12-13 08:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by sampls123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is cruel and unusual. But if he follows through on your move then do you or your mom want this man. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-12-13 08:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by Linz 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That is totally immoral and WRONG. You should be respecting your mom, not hitting on her husband. Talk to a trusted adult or get professional help.
2006-12-13 09:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Leave it alone would you want your mom to steal your man? besides if he's any kind of man he will tell you to get the f*ck away from him and tell your mom. you will loose any relationship you and your mom have forever is it really worth that?
2006-12-13 09:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You worse than a slut .How dare you even consider it ,you want to jeopardize your mothers happiness for your stupid inf actuation leave your moms man alone,get someone your own age and let your mom be happy.You selfish and inconsiderate.
2006-12-13 08:59:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋