back and says he wants to give you money for christmas. would you let him come over (and not come inside your house) just to let him give you the money (which is like $200.00) and not talk to him again and buy your boyfriend something with the money or would you not take the money and never talk to him again. (my ex was my previous relationship and he really broke my heart so i thought of this as payback lol)
2006-12-13 08:52:06 · 19 answers · asked by ANGEL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
back and says he wants to give you money for christmas. would you let him come over (and not come inside your house) just to let him give you the money (which is like $200.00) and not talk to him again and buy your boyfriend something with the money or would you not take the money and never talk to him again. (my ex was my previous relationship and he really broke my heart so i thought of this as payback lol).....AND I DONT WANT HIM BACK AT ALL I DONT EVEN HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM!!!! ALL I WANT TO KNOW IS SHOULD I JUST TAKE THE MONEY FROM HIM AND NEVER TALK TO HIM AGAIN!!!
2006-12-13 09:02:07 · update #1
since you are in a new relationship, there is no reason for you to still have contact with your ex, the reason why he still calls you is because you allow it, you are sending him a message that even you still care about what he has to say even though you are in a relationship, don't take any money from him because he could later on use that against you and it could potentially bite you should your boyfriend find out about it, the best way to move on is to get over him and be as happy as you can be in your current relationship, show him that you are much better off without him and that your new boyfriend has everything that he didn't...
2006-12-13 09:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take the money I know you see it as payback but taking the money can end up hurting your relationship with the guy you love. Your Ex has to understand that it's over between you and accepting that money is like telling him that you still have feelings for him. So don't accept the money and just let that guy go!
2006-12-13 08:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Mizzy D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be Hoe-ish by taking the Money!....Unlessthat's just your Nature! Just move on and stop taking his calls...He SHOULD get the point eventually. Having someone to love that loves you back is something NOT to take for granted.
2006-12-13 08:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way would I accept the money. If you are happy in your relationship and truly love him, then you won't compromise it by continuing a relationship with an ex who wants you back and you surely wouldn't accept money from him.
2006-12-13 08:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you take that money you have to accept what comes with it. two wrongs dont make a right and what goes around comes around, so whatever you do to someone else its possible that it came come back to bite you in the butt. take care.
2006-12-13 08:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved your current boyfriend, then you wouldn't be wasting time talking to your ex. Don't be disrespectful of your boyfriend. Tell your ex to take a hike.
2006-12-13 08:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why your ex will give you money?? Is he trying to win you back with money? don't do that, money won't buy love, not matter what.
2006-12-13 08:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah ont open the door and take the money because if he really wants you he'll rape u.. if u really love your bf then n u wont take it and try find some other way to make money to buy him something..
..CL.AIRE EN MARK..
2006-12-13 08:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by 67 GuRl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take the money!
Don't talk to him!
2006-12-13 08:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Bob_123 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he only wants you because hes lonely and your not hes your ex for a reason get over it stay with what you got
2006-12-13 09:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋