Ok well me and my fiance have been together sense the begining of May but talked all the time before then. We got engaged 5 months ago. A long time ago before we was even together my step sister dating him for a very short period of time. Well it seems that her name is always being brought up in our problems as in some of my friends told me that they seem my fiance give my sister a shot gun mouth to mouth but then when i confront my fiance and my sister they said they were using there hands so it was no mouth to mouth. So with all that being brought into discussion he deleted her off of his myspace and everything trying to prove to me he dont care for her. Well then today i was lookin at his myspace and she has left him a comment about how sexy he is. Why did he allow the comment to be posted or why didnt he take it off in the first place when he deleted her. Also where his pics are they are all of him except for 2 of them one is of me and the other is my sister..
2006-12-13 08:49:20 · 12 answers · asked by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I simply asked him why it was on there he said she is just a friend and got very adjetated with me so it seemed. Right now he is in the other room and will not talk to me. Am i over exzadurating or should i be concerned. I love him more than anything but him getting mad when i ask him about it seems kinda weird. Please give me some advice on what you might think he is thinking or what i should do.
2006-12-13 08:52:59 · update #1
It looks like you need a coffin instead of a fiance!
2006-12-13 08:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I know from experience and i've been told REPEATEDLY by my fiance, to give him a little trust. Men don't think about things the way we do, until they find the same thing on something of ours. otherwise they could careless how it looks or sounds to you.
when you find things like that, your head starts wondering and you get upset and you go to the extreme and the night ends up in an arguement. But if you really love your fiance, like I've come to find out, you have to give him a little trust and a little bend every now and then. If he's a good boy, he won't do anything behind your back, like you may think is going on. although, some men will...don't let me mislead you on that. if there is anything at all between him and your sister, the best way to find out, like i've also come to find out, is not to look for stuff to happen. if he's doing anything with her behind your back, eventually he will let something slip or she will let something slip, and it required zero effort from you to find out. All you have to do is sit and wait, if you really think he is cheating or it is more than they say it is. I know it's hard, trust me...i don't trust a lot of people and for things like that i know how it feels to wonder and get upset over something little. eventually, they will eave something uncovered, or someone will catch them, just be patient.
Men always try to put off that a person doesn't mean anything to them by deleting them, so be careful because you might find out that he's contacting her in other ways than myspace and covering it up as something/someone else.
2006-12-13 17:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by lildrumagrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be telling you the truth and could be getting aggervated cause you keep pushing him about you think something is going on between them two.She could have sent him a comment on myspace saying he's sexy to make you jealous or something like that.Put trust into your fiancee till you know for a fact that he has cheated!
2006-12-13 16:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was already a mistake to date your sister's ex....does not matter if it was your stepsister! The only reason it is hard for you is because you know her personally. What were you thinking when you started dating him? Gross...wouldn't ex's be considered off limits? Just the thought of you having sex with someone who has also had sesx with your sister is really disturbing? What if he has been cheating with her and you have been getting sloppy seconds? Oh and the part about you marrying him....YOUR AN IDIOT!
2006-12-13 16:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by wherenai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's in the past let it go. Although it is kind of awkward because of your relation to the third party.
Here. I think you are beautiful and if it doesn't work out with this guy I want to be the first in line to go out with you. See, anyone can flirt with anyone. More of these happen in real life that are never recorded.
2006-12-15 13:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would wait awhile before you get married, it seems that you don't trust him, and in order for a marriage to work you have to have trust, and communication . sit and talk to him about it tell him how you feel. and tell your sister to find her own man, that your fiance is yours now and not hers, for what ever they broked off, they should let it go. good luck.
2006-12-13 16:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should rethinkg ur relationship. marriage is about loyalty, honest, and love.
Tell ur sis to back off and respect ur relaionship
ur not over exagerating...he should also respect ur feelings...
2006-12-13 16:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was you I would just tell your sister she can have him.Sounds to me like he still isnt over her and she isnt over him.Let him go before you get even more hurt by them.
2006-12-13 16:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him back the ring until he makes up his mind.
2006-12-13 16:52:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is something going on with your sis and fiance....what you need to do is dump him.....
2006-12-13 16:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by getopup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋