I met this guy about two months ago and we decide to be together shortly after.We lived quit a distance from each other but because he lived alone, I always ended up going over to his place. Everything changed all of a sudden, he became less interesting and I wasn't feeling that. I don't know where his head was cause he never would tell me. Any way I went over one day and we got in an arguement and he hasn't called me since. I sent him a email the day after and he hasn't responded. It makes me think he never liked me in the first place. What type of guy would end a relationship over a small disagreement? Plus I apologized afterwards!
2006-12-13 08:27:16 · 35 answers · asked by Mycan Moneek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bottom line: nice guys do not like desperate girls. I know, you're saying, "but I'm not desperate!" Well, you are acting desperate so cut it out! If he wants to be together, he'll contact you.
Merry Christmas!
2006-12-13 08:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be brutally honest, I doubt this relationship's going anywhere...
First of all, you saying that he would never tell you what he was thinking. Strong relationships have their foundation in communication and understanding. If he never talks to you, that's a bad sign, a sign of shallowness in the relationship.
Also, a strong relationship will have both members willing to apologize, forgive, and work out their differences. You sound like you'd be willing to do this, but he doesn't.
It's possible that something that seemed like a small disagreement to you meant something more to him... I've had that happen to me before. But that still doesn't cover up the bigger problem of him not communicating with you.
If the relationship is worth a lot to you, try contacting him again, by e-mail, or phone, or something like that. Tell him you're sorry for hurting him, and that you would like him to help you understand why a small disagreement turned into such a big problem. But try not to get too upset if he doesn't respond in the way you had hoped. I know this is hard to hear, but he doesn't sound like the kind of guy that would be good for a serious relationship.
2006-12-13 08:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no telling what the deal is with this one....but at least he showed you his real side early enough to show you what a waste of time some men can be. Either he never cared enough to begin with, which means you should just forget about him. It's possible that he is reallu busy and whatnot (the old excuse that most men use when caught slackin) in which case he is not worth it since he seems not be incapable of making you apart of his life. You do not need a man like that. You deserve to be in a relationship with a mature, caring guy, who won't give up after just one arguement, and if for some reason there is a valid reason to have an arguement, he should be able to discuss it with you. forget about him...
2006-12-13 08:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were already growing apart and he used the small argument as an excuse not to see you anymore. Sometimes no matter how a great a person you are, once someone gets to really know you they realize they aren't interested. It's nothing personal and it doesn't make you any less interesting or attractive. Just not his type.
2006-12-13 08:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys do that-- they aren't interested anymore but instead of being a man about it, they pick some fight or set up some other scenario where you look like the bad guy or it looks like you were the one to end it because they were too chicken to take responsibility and be honest about it. He's a dork and not worth another moment of your time.
2006-12-13 08:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably lost interest because of the distance. or met someone else. If its only been a couple of months move on...I think its over. Feel the pain and move on Good luck
2006-12-13 08:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was using you and now he isn't interested. The argument was just and excuse to end it.
Move on. If your willing to drive the distance tells me that your the giver in that relationship anyways. Get someone on equal terms. Your better than that guy and can do better.
2006-12-13 08:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what you did. I think your relationship with him has gone as far as it's going.
I hope that you will stop wondering what you did, & look ahead to what you are going to do for yourself now.
Treat yourself to a day at the spa, buy a new pair of shoes. Do something nice for yourself, because you are a good person, & you deserve it.
2006-12-13 08:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been through the same thing but mine was just 2 weeks and for some stupid reason, i miss him sometimes. but just let him go because i don't think he actually really liked u. if he's not replying ur email and not calling u, he's indirectly trying to tell u he doesn't want to be wiv u anymore. just move on and find someone who actually appreciates u. gudluck.
2006-12-13 08:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong so don't blame yourself! Just think as yourself as being lucky that you didn't waste anymore time and energy on someone who acts so immature. There are so many other wonderful men out there. STOP thinking about this one and go find one! GoodLuck
2006-12-13 08:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋