2006-12-13 08:21:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people would tell you to move on because long distance does not work, but I say that if both people that are in the relationship want to make it work it can. I've been there and its hard as hell, but when you keep the communication open and you both trust each other and you are always honest with each other even if you think it will hurt the other person the it is worth fighting for. In order to make this work you both will need to know that it won't be easy at all you both need to be able to fly back and forth for holidays and try to be together during summer vacation, but what you need to figure out is do you really love this man enough to put your self through all of this. Talk to him and the both of you should come to a conclusion before he leaves. GOOD LUCK.....
2006-12-13 08:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by BASHFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how commit ed you are to the relationship. I won't lie to you, most of the time it does not work out. However I do have a good friend from college that went to school 6 hours away from his girl friend. They ended up getting married! If you are dedicated to one another, keep up the communication but at the same time, make sure you enjoy your college experience as well. Good luck.
2006-12-13 08:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, I would move on. People in college grow and change so much. Plus, guys and girls have needs. Ask yourself this: Do you trust each other? Can you go for long periods of time without seeing one another? Can you be faithful? Do you love him? Does he love you? If you feel like you two meet the basic long distance relationship "requirements," then go for it. Only you have the answer to that question!
2006-12-13 08:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends...if that's the only reason you are questioning for staying together....stay with him...maybe at some point you can move to be closer to him. if you have been together for awhile there really isn't a reason to throw it away if you are good together. if you think you cant handle the long distance and also not be able to visit often...then maybe you should move on. otherwise i wouldn't throw the relationship away just because of that
2006-12-13 08:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It extremely relies upon on how commit ed you're to the courting. I gained't lie to you, lots of the time it does no longer paintings out. even although I do have a sturdy chum from college that went to school 6 hours distant from his lady chum. They ended up getting married! if you're dedicated to a minimum of one yet another, keep up the verbal replace yet on the similar time, be sure you get excitement out of your college journey as well. sturdy success.
2016-10-18 06:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on because people tend to grow apart in there college years
2006-12-13 08:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by portia b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really love him stay with him.Long distance relationships are hard and needs alot of work.But if you love him it will be worth it in the end! Good Luck!
2006-12-13 08:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you should keep in touch with him as much as you can suprise him come to his college check up on him but make sure you give him sometime to breath but if you feel so nervous you could ask his room mate. honey listen to the sound in your heart if it tells yo to leave then go if it tells you to go then do so.
2006-12-13 08:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you like him. If you REALLY like him, stay w/ him. And if not, let him go and move on.
2006-12-13 08:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Just Me... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should agree to each do your own thing while you're apart. If it's meant to be then it'll work out. You'll reconnect in the future.
2006-12-13 08:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by strawberrycrush 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋