she broke uo with me today and the reasons she said she did it was that i made fun of her friends(one girl), i wasnt boyfriend material but thtas crap i talked to her every day i told on guys that were verbably harasing her, i wasnt fun enough. what do you think?
2006-12-13 08:17:07 · 30 answers · asked by tigersfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude she just wanted a diferint d%$k just forget about her
2006-12-13 08:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by dirtydeathgutter 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude!! It could be your spelling and grammar skills that made her give you the axe!!...(lol) ..but on a serious note, and this is coming from the 'dogcatchers' perspective in me. She broke up with you because she's really 'into' the "girl"-friend ;) as in the 'girlfriend' may have replaced you as the luv-bunny alternative. And Dude when you made fun of the 'friend' that just pushed her right over the edge.
Humm..maybe deep down you already were suspicious of something going on and in your sub-conscious, you did those things intentionally to drive the GF away. Stands to reason We Men, Like Dogs are very territorial.
On a lighter note: STOP!, DON'T Call Her Everyday now looking for more answers or reasons. If she really thinks you're not 'boyfriend' material for Her, ...then move on to someone you ARE the right stuff for. (She probably doesn't deserve you anyway).
If you ever need my services: catching a dog, hit me up on yahoo360.
Peace
The Dogcatcher06
I had to respond to this one
2006-12-13 16:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by DogCatcher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did make fun of her friend, that may be an honest reason. Sometimes, especially when you are young, its really important for your friends and your boyfriend to be able to socialize and get along. As far as not being boyfriend material and not being fun enough, sounds to me like she was trying to make herself feel better about breaking up with you for whatever reason by putting blame on you. I would try not to worry why and move on!
2006-12-13 16:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Laney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll admit it, girls are bit*hes. They make up excuses all the time. Why take crap from someone who treats you like crap. She may not be lying or she may be lying, but if she is going to break up with you over something silly, ask yourself how you can have a serious relationship with someone like that. Drop the drama and find a real girl who will respect you.
2006-12-13 16:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think she has someone else. How old is this gal?
It sounds like she has another agenda or is taking some advise from her friends. I would remind her that her friends aren't in the relationship, she is.
Did you verbally harass her? Are you fun? Maybe she is telling the truth.
2006-12-13 16:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by daisylou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you say to her friend? A true man would respect his girlfriend and her friends. I have done the same thing! Friendships are a rare gift but boyfriends come and go! You need to develope some manners and mature alot. If you want her back, you need to truely apologize to her and her friend!
2006-12-13 16:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you spent most of the time with her telling her about the other guys instead of getting to know her and let her learn more about you. Honestly, i would be annoyed if my b/f constantly keeps bringing up what other guys are saying.
If that's all you can talk about maybe you need to converse more with other persons except the guys that verbally abuse your now Ex-girlfriend.
2006-12-13 16:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this was her sick way of telling you that she does not like you, or never liked you in the first place. Some girls will tell guys one thing because they do not want to hurt their feelings. It sounds like to me she did hurt you...that was wrong. She should have told you that she did not want to date anymore. Does she have a new bf? I would not get back with her if she tells you she does. You do not deserve that kind of treatment.
2006-12-13 16:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lauryn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to examine yourself to know! Are any or all of those things true? Be honest with yourself. If you can honestly say no, then let go of her, she obviously doesn't want a relationship with you. If any of those things are true, then you need to evaluate what kind of a boyfriend you really are. No one likes someone who lies or who constantly criticizes their friends.....
2006-12-13 16:22:58 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably had other reasons why she didn't want to be friends with you but, she was too much of a coward to tell you. So, brush her off your shoulder and move on to bigger and better friends.
2006-12-13 16:20:36 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just made excuses to dump you if she really care she would not leave you just cause you make fun of her friend
2006-12-13 16:20:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋