I'm 18 and i told this girl i like that I want to spend the rest of my life with her. and she said "i guess we'll see".... bad sign or good sign? I've never been out on a date with her neither
2006-12-13 08:13:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if ur not her boyfriend and u've never even been on a date how do you even know that you want to? thats what i'd be thinking if i were her. she probably just thought it was kinda weird or u were kidding. Try asking her out. Its not a bad sign or a good sign. At least she didnt jump back screamin "Aw HELL nawww" lol
2006-12-13 08:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've never been out on a date with her? Meaning, you're not even in a relationship with her yet and you tell her you want to spend the rest of your life with her?
Slow down! She's going to get scared off if you try to rush things. Not to mention that the type of relationship that lasts a lifetime takes a LOT of time and effort to develop.
You can't take back the words you said. But if you really are interested in spending your life with her, you need to not pressure her into that. Make sure you have a good solid relationship before you bring up anything like that. Don't keep mentioning it to her, or she's going to feel rushed and pressured and run away from you.
Bad sign or good sign, you ask? Well... it's probably not good, but it's not as bad as it could be. Now, if she would have slapped you across the face and said you were an arrogant bastard, THAT would have been a very bad sign. It appears to me just from her words (but I could be missing valuable clues in her voice or body language) that it means that she doesn't feel the same way yet, but yet she's not entirely freaked out at it and saying that it's never going to happen. It's sort of a polite version of "um, why are you even thinking of that now?!"
So... slow down, don't pressure her. If it's meant to be, eventually she'll come to feel the same way. If not, then it just means that your true love is out there and you still have to find her.
2006-12-13 08:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good sign. She's just trying to see what you got, and what type of guy you turn out to be, so depending on how you are she will make decisions and work out that "i guess..we'll see". So, be a good guy, show her what you're all about and show her how much you love her!! Send txt mssg, little e-cards by email or mail, be sweet romantic. It's all about that. Take Care, Good Luck. Happy Holidays
Tasha
2006-12-13 08:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Candy_T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 18 hon, you're gonna have at least 10 girls you'll think you wanna spend the rest of your life with...until you settle for one for real...
And she probably was a little freaked out to tell you the truth...
2006-12-13 08:20:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend a little more time with her and take her out on a few dates before thinking about it.
2006-12-13 08:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bledoux 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um you might want to date her before deciding if you want to spend the rest of your life with her!!That would always be good.
2006-12-13 08:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And this variations what precisely? *lol* I already do spend my existence "continually on my own" and already have been pushed aside as uninteresting. ^_^ that's not like i choose the two result the two, yet that's what I even have, that's what i'm caught with.
2016-10-14 21:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by ramayo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if she never dated you 18 yr old kid I would say chances are slim to none move on and not be so clingy next time
2006-12-13 08:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it's good or a bad sign ,one day i told my gf this and i didnot mean it bad or good i was just honest with her that we dont know what excatly gonna happen in future,i mean that is what we both want but we will see what gonna happen in future
2006-12-13 08:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad sign. She thinks you're a freak. Maybe a sweet freak, but nontheless.....a freak.
2006-12-13 08:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋