well this seems to be a cliched situation.
i fell in love with my best friend, but he doesnt see me more than a friend, he clearly said so 2months back... so it took me a while to get over that and continue with life..
i kinda moved on trying to keep some distance so that i dont get hurt
he called me up last night, he needed someone to talk to. we must have talked from 3am to 7am, international call.
he misses me alot and cant really define his feelings now.
i am a prudent person, but i think i loved him too much and i kinda still do.... it was tough to move on in the first place and now if later he says he doesnt love me then it would again be painful.
breaking off the friendship would be stupid. do i tell him i need some time off? or wat shud i do? it seems stupid at times...
2006-12-13 07:53:12 · 8 answers · asked by anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him how you feel and let him know that you need to tell him this so you won't be wondering what could have been and you won't feel like an emotional rollercoaster. You are a friend to him and he needs to be a friend to you so you can say what you have to say to him from your heart. Just as long as he knows your feelings and where you stand, that might give him some direction as to where his feelings are. You owe it to yourself to tell him how you feel and just be patient and everything will work out for you. It may or may not be now but know this, you told him what was in your heart and you should be proud of yourself when you get the chance to! Good luck and keep your head up!!
2006-12-13 08:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been there only switched, I decided we shouldnt go out and he was so mad he hated me forever one drunken night 3 yrs later we slept together I thought that was all it was gonna be, but he kept coming back and now weve been married 2 1/2 yrs and have 2 kids. it just depends on your personalities, is he worthy, how have all his other relationships turned out?
2006-12-13 16:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by hotmoma_37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be stupid to break off the friendship? Its not really a friendship anyway, its just you holding on to unrequited love. Let it go!
2006-12-13 15:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like alot of drama, i think its best to call the friendship off sense its so complicated and in the end your probably gonna get hurt...
2006-12-13 15:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Asia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me, I liked this girl that was my friend but when I told her she got mad and ignored me for weeks. She got over it and we are friends again, I still like her but ill never tell her now. :( Ill never tell a friend I like her again.
2006-12-13 15:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can, be friends with him. that happened to me, and now i see him as my brother. being friends with him helps him believe it was no big deal, and it will cover some embarassment.
2006-12-13 16:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by kt! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and let him handle his problems on his own.
2006-12-13 15:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep ur distance...ur bound to get hurt again. I'm sorry
2006-12-13 15:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by [un]bro/ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋