Do you think its wrong for 2 consenting adults to have s*x after only knowing each other for a few days? I debated this with my best friend. He says guys don’t look at women as sluts anymore if they do this. He said it depends on the person…what do you guys think?. AND PLEASE NO RESPONSES THAT READ “Hmmm I don’t know…but check out my dating site”. LOL
2006-12-13 07:52:37 · 24 answers · asked by vivian M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like the guy not physically & you learn a big or even a lil' of emotions, then don't do anything fool w/ your life... get into something real not into sex... get a real respect to yourself.
be afraid of the consequences that might happen if you will try that.
if it's not important to you what he will think of or really feel of you afterward, then do it... but dont expect to earn a big investment of his emotions to you!!!
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Excess Note:
i know a guy who has many women around, dont be 1 of the women around... be the only one women for him...if you understand what i mean!!!
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2006-12-13 08:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by ayu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, if I was a man and I slept with a woman I didn't know, I would not call her back again. Same thing applies if I was a woman and slept with a man - I wouldn't care enough to call him back. In the double standard society we live in, women are more likely to be called sluts than men are. For men - it's a good thing to sleep around. For women - not so much.
But whether or not one-night stands are actually WRONG, that all depends on your personal view. Some people find nothing wrong with it whereas others insist on no sex before marriage.
However, I do know a lot of people (men) who keep track of how many women they've slept with and some even go so far as to rate how each was in bed. Their numbers are in the high 300s. So, if you sleep with this man, you have a chance to contact an STD from 300+ people. What makes this wrong is that none of these men are going to tell the women they sleep with that they've slept with 300+ other women. It's wrong to make someone so susceptible to terrible diseases just because you want to see how high your record can go.
And that's the part I don't agree with in one-night stands. Plus, is it truly possible to have one-night stands and not face any emotional damage?
2006-12-13 16:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Basiate 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think two consenting adults can do it in the first five minutes, if they choose. If you suspect a man will feel that you are a sl*t because you decide to have s*x with him after only knowing him a few days, then don't sleep with him! He has his own issues. My definition of a sl*t is a girl who sleeps around to get attention. Just because you know you are hot for some guy doesn't make you a sl*t!
2006-12-13 16:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i never looked at women as sluts for one, but i gotta say i like a good slut once in a while. But i dont think all women are sluts, but i do think all women have a slut in em. Hmmm, im not sure so you should check out my dating site.
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2006-12-13 15:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's not wrong. Although, I've gone into relationships like that where the girl is expecting some emotional relationship / committment, and I was just down for sum fun.
So, no. It's not wrong as long as everyone knows what they're in for.
2006-12-13 15:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't see a problem with it if you don't, as long as you are aware of the emotional and physical risks involved and how to mitigate them.
2006-12-13 15:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by CPT Jack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse, sex should be saved for marriage. Do it with someone who is truly special to you and who feels the same way about you. But i don't think it is wrong to have oral or anal sex.
2006-12-13 15:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by dude wheres my car 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is right, i thnk that it depends on the person and especially if the guy is really hot, if so YES go for it.
2006-12-13 15:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by GirlyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i guess it all depends on the situation and the ppl involved. in most cases i reccomend against it cuz u dont know wat they're rele after until u get to know them better. but the choice is always urs and ull make a good decision. hope it helps :D
2006-12-13 15:59:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the old rules don't always apply now days. but I don't think it's a very responsible thing to do.
2006-12-13 15:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by puckbunny03 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋