How will I know when I'm truley in love with my girlfriend?
2006-12-13 07:47:53 · 6 answers · asked by Vallerie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because I'm sure what I'm feeling now isn't lust.
2006-12-13 07:48:38 · update #1
no, I'm a girl...
2006-12-13 07:53:12 · update #2
You use a girl avatar, and you are a guy??
I am just kidding with you...
Seriously though, this is a tough question to answer, but the difference between love and lust is a fine line. You will know it is love when you care about more than just the body. When you ask her how her day was. When you are down when she is down. When you are happy when she is happy. Then you are in love. If it was lust, you could move on and you do not worry so much for her feelings. Love requires sacrifice, time, and patience. If you have these three things, you know it is love. Sacrifice means you are willing to invest in her for her own good alone. Time means you are willing to pay attention when she mentions that thing her girlfriend did that made her mad, and you are there to sooth her pain. And patience means, you are willing to wait on her timing for everything to happen in the relationship. Guys pick, but girls choose. Girls always decide when things progress to a new level, and you are willing to be patient during every step. This is how you will know you are in love!
2006-12-13 07:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you start picturing yourself with that special someone, you know it is love. If you can't see yourself without her, that's another sign of love. You'll know because your heart will open up your eyes in so many ways that you never knew a feeling like ever existed!! Believe me, you will know. When you think about the conversations you had, the times that you spend with each other, the small things like saying "how was your day", are all signs of BEING in love!! And if she feels the same about you, no matter what mistakes you have made in the past and she loves you for YOU, then you know it is the real thing!!
2006-12-13 15:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will miss that person when your apart like crazy, think about that person constantly, get nervous at the sound of her voice on the phone, get butterflies in your stomach seeing the sight of her, sweaty palms and dried lips and mouth when your together, giggly at times from just breathing the same air, sometimes you can babble out crap if your not alert, the dizzy feeling of love can cause all these crazy things to happen if you do not hold it together, but being inlove is a wonderful thing.
2006-12-13 16:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think about them all the time and wish u could spend every mintue with them. They're the first person u think of when u wake up and the last person u think of before you go to sleep. You feel happy with them and when thinking of them. Your heart feels good and light.
2006-12-13 15:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by Heyo44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you can't stop thinking about him and everywhere you go you see him and youre always waiting for his call and wonder when is the next time u will see him...it's ridiculous but its true...if youre in love this happens :]
2006-12-13 15:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just feel it
2006-12-13 15:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Gisselle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋