2006-12-13 07:14:32 · 8 answers · asked by vwgirl63 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I agree with the other answers, but I think you need to explain it to her-- tell her you can't understand what she wants when she screams, and that you will have to walk away from her until she speaks to you nicely. Then BE SURE that when she uses her nice voice that you listen to her, and have a conversation about whatever it is her two year old mind needs to tell you. Usually kids scream because they feel like they can't get someones attention. Also be sure you are spending quality time with her, doing some of the things she likes to do. That will help defuse her anxiety and give her situations where she can talk to you without being under pressure. Good Luck!!
2006-12-13 07:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is because you allow her to. Most likely when a mom is saying that her child screams for her and nobody else is because she is learning that she can get away with things with you and she can be a brat. You need to show her that you are the boss. When she screams put her in time out and tell her you will not tolorate her screaming and if she wants something she can talk for now you will sit in time out. Everytime she screams keep putting her there and say use your words.
2006-12-13 09:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by BabyDolll128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What works for me when my 3 year old is screaming or whining is that I tell him I can only understand his Big Boy Words (speaking clearly) and I just don't give him the attention until he uses them. Works like a charm.
2006-12-13 09:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sylvia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's pushing your boundaries to see if she can get away with not speaking. Classic strong willed kid. Tell her that you only hear words and don't respond to the screaming (I know, I know...easier said than done!). Just keep consistent to let her know that it's unacceptable to scream instead of using her words and she'll figure out you're not giving in. Good luck!
2006-12-13 09:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by emrobs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her screaming, she does it because she knows it provokes a reaction. Physically turn away from her when she starts and do not say anything, not even "Be quiet". When she stops turn round quickly, give a big smile and tell her shes a good girl. A while of this and she will relearn her behaviour..;
2006-12-13 07:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a 2 year old also who speaks very well. If she begins to whine or cry I tell her to "use your words" and explain to her that i cant understand what she needs unless she uses words to tell me. Kids are smart, dont be fooled! My daughter will stop fussing, take a deep breath, and tell me exactly what she wants. It works but you do have to ignore them while they act out and always be patient. Easier said then done, but not impossible!
2006-12-13 08:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Aubrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to ask but do you scream a lot, or are there other children in the house screaming? Toddlers repeat everything that we say and they also mimick us
2006-12-13 08:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by aries6604 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's to get attention, just ignore it she will start saying mommy when she wants you.
2006-12-13 07:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋