guy helpp??

Question

i really like a guy but i cant figure out if he likes me back! can you give me some flirting tips, ways to get his attention, and ideass so that he would like me? also, is it weird for a girl to ask a guy out? last year i did, and the guy said no, but now im kinda afraid of getting rejected...is it normal for a girl to ask the guy? i just kinda wanted it to be the other way around.
thanksss
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Answer 1

Make sure you talk to him and show interest in what he likes to do. You just might have to ask him though. Different things get the attention of different guys. But talk to him, show interest, be friendly, etc.

Answer 2

Lol. this is a majorly tough question.

I'm in a relationship at the moment and my gf and I got talking the other day about how I always make the moves, and whenever I do I am so worried that I do the right thing. We decided to switch for a day, she'd make the moves and I would play the role of just going about my business.

It ended up that we kissed twice the whole day because the rest of the time she was worried if it was the right moment.

Its the same situation for a guy, now she knows how hard it is for me.

For you to make the first move would be a great favour to this guy. He probably is madly in love with you but is really worried about doing something. Guys also worry about rejection, its just been accepted that guys always make the moves, which isn't always a good thing cause you might wait a lifetime to get anywhere.

Answer 3

Hey, it's good to hear you are this interested. It means that if things were to work out you would be completely invested in this relationship. Now, the question is how do you get this guy to invest that much as well?
To be honest there really is no "one" thing that can make that happen. For guys it's easy. We just have to show that we are confident, courteous, and cute. For Women it's not that cut and dry.
My advice would be related only to a guy that is worth your time. If someone tells you to show your boobs or something, and you agree, then this advice is not going to help you. Be genuine; guys like that. Be sincere; guys love honest communication. Don't agree with everything he says. Have an opinion and a backbone. Don't tell your whole life story in the first phone call. Save some of that for after the first time you sleep together and are lying there afterward.
You can most definitely approach him; after all it's 2006! But, be careful because the guy wants to feel like he won you. It's part of that whole hunter/gatherer thing. We're working on it. When you approach him be subtle. Don't ask if he'd like to date you. If you have to initiate then that means he is shy. And if he is shy he will most likely be embarassed and give you an answer of no. But only because he is terrified of you.
Instead, come up with something that applies to how you know each other. You didn't give a lot of details so I'll give some generic examples.
If you have a class together ask him if he'd be willing to help you study at the library after class. If you work together ask him if he wanted to meet up with you before work to get a cup of coffee together to make the transition to hell easier.
I think you get the point. Basically just come up with something that takes the focus off of the fact that you're giving him the opportunity to ask you out.
If you do spend that time together and he doesn't tell you flat out that he'd like to see you again then perhaps you need to keep looking until you find someone with some more confidence. Because, trust me, you might like him now but 3 months from now his little shy guy issue will not be cute!

Answer 4

Obvious you want Vince or you wouldn't be considering him over you current boyfriend. I can understand the contemplation but you shouldn't disrespect Sarren by being unsure of what you want. You really owe everyone involve some serious consideration and understand that your kind of living a lie at this point. It's almost like you've already left. My advice is to leave Sarren because he doesn't deserve to believe something that may not be true...understand what I'm trying to say? So you really need to understand you feelings and make your move and try not to drag anything out too long because you'll just make things harder on him and you.

Answer 5

Well now you know why guys have apprehension. Doesn't feel too good does it?

Of course you want it to be the other way around but that's life.

On the upside, don't give up...keep swinging!

Answer 6

Difficult question. . .
You can t get someone to like you but you can find out whether he likes you or not. Have you tried to strike a conversation? The mere fact that you start a conversation with him will get the message accross that you like him....
Talking is important
Good luck

Andrew

Answer 7

ive never (until last week) had to ask out a girl. they have always been the initiator. i dont think its wierd at all. as a matter of fact i really like it. go for it. you only live once. if he says yes than you will thank me. if he says no than maybe over time he will start to like you. women have used that one on me several times...and it worked!

Answer 8

your the old fashion type guy asks girl out you know but first start asking around if he's going out with anybody then if he isn't try it if it doesn't work out then it wasn't meant to be.

Answer 9

Just ask him before you get too attached. He may be too shy to ask you and it is always better to know where you stand in his future - even if it hurts.

Answer 10

well not a guy here but you do not need to lower yourself for any guys'!