I know this girl for a long time. she's been a good friend to me. She treats me with respect and fine, but she doesn't seem to be interested to start a relationship with me(I asked out implicitly once.) .
I think she's trying to be hard. and she does like me.
I see her rarely. I know she has a class on Monday morning. I have come over twice after her class to see her. but each time she didn't spend more than 5 minutes talking to me.
Now, I have an idea. I go and meet her after class each Monday.
Do you think it does work? what you suggest to do by the time I see her. I insist that's the only way I can see her. because I don't know where she goes. and I asked her out. and she rejected.
What you suggest?
2006-12-13 07:04:36 · 14 answers · asked by Sally 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's a good idea... at least just to say "hi" or something normal.
If you like a girl, you aren't stalking like those other people said, you just LIKE her and you can't do anything about it.
2006-12-13 07:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by SalesGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you asked her out and she rejected you, it may be because she is telling you the truth. If you want to meet her after class, bring a single red rose and tell her you'd like to take her out. If she still says no, continue to be her friend, but dont push it. She'll feel alienated and weird towards you, and it could ruin your friendship. So try once, then let it go, and find someone who will appreciate and love you for you. Good luck!
2006-12-13 07:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by kissamoose217 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stock her... If she wants to hang out she will call you. Let her miss hanging out with you. you don't have to be there all the time. It a little weird that you would show up at her class when she doesn't even spend more than 5 minutes with you when she gets home. I suggest leaving her alone for a little while. If she cares that you haven't been around, she'll seek you out.
2006-12-13 07:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away man. If she said no flat out well then its not gonna happen. I know rejection aint nice but you gotta look at it from the view that its her loss. If she doesnt wanna go out with you well then trust me a lot of other girls will. Let it go
2006-12-13 07:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Eoin B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop acting like a stalker and let things be..If she likes you she will let you know trust me..The more attention you give this girl the more she gonna play hard to get ..
2006-12-13 07:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this special person how you feel about he. You cannot keep this on the inside. She is probably waiting on you to say something. You better hurry up before she finds someone else.
2006-12-13 07:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by lhpretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha... you wanna get INTO her? or get to know her...
soundsn like she really isnt' that interested in you. try sending flowers to her house, or giving her a single rose the next time you see her. try writing her a nice letter and handing it to her the next time yous ee her. be creative - we like that.
good luck!
2006-12-13 07:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by kisme86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit back and wait if she wants to go out with you let her ask you out .Dont push her or you will just push her away.
2006-12-13 07:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by Purplepassion9126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say to her "ForGET you,then! I'll go get me another girl that looks Just Like you!"
then I'd go on out and Get a girl that looks just like her!
Har Har! HAR!!!
2006-12-14 02:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hook up with one of her best friends...it works everytime and hell...you might get double the fun or even triple...depends on how many friends she has...
its a win win situation...go for it dude
2006-12-13 07:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by disciple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋