okay.
ill try to make this short and simple.
i have a bf now.
and
this guy i have been in love with graduated from my school last year and went into the army.
and im only in the 9th grade.
well.
anyways.hes coming home now for 1 month.
and then going to korea for a year.
he wants me to go pick him up from the airport.
and
i dont want to mess anything up i have with my bf now because i like him and i know this other guy will be gone for a whole year.
i dont know what to do.
help please.
2006-12-13 07:01:49 · 10 answers · asked by whitney t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you already answered your own question! Why would u want to mess up the great relationship u have right now? Talk to your current boyfriend and seee if he minds u picking up a FRIEND from the air port BUT let him know its a GUY! See how he feels about it or even take him along with you! Dont ruin what u have in the palm of your hand ! A guy in the Army is too old for u anyway! Good luck and Merry Xmas! Hang on to the love u have right now! Throwing it away would be stupid!
2006-12-13 07:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in love , there are no questions about how you feel . A freight train couldn't stop it. Since you are torn between two people ,you love neither of them . You might care about them both. But that is not the kind of love that people fight and die for . It's not the kind of love that will last a lifetime , and it's not the kind of love that you should marry or commit for . Be free like a butterfly till you find that kind of love .
2016-05-23 19:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to the airport then it means that your boyfriend you have now doesn't really matter.
You told on yourself when you said
'the other guy will be gone for a whole year'
that means that you still have feelings for this guy, and your current boyfriend is just someone to have around so u wont be lonely.
I would say dump your current boyfriend because he obviously doesn't mean much to you, and then go have fun with the guy that's coming home.
SUPPORT OUR TROOPS!
2006-12-13 07:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sence you already have a new b/f you need to be honest with the guy that's coming home to see you.If you don't and lead him on then he'll be very ticked off so it's best to be honest with him.
2006-12-13 07:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only in the 9th grade. Too much drama for a 13-yr-old. Anyway, you said he was your EX - former, used to be, was, etc.
2006-12-13 07:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yourself in your boyfriends shoes and think how you would feel if he went to pick up one of his ex's at the airport and you will have your answer.
2006-12-13 07:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth.
2006-12-13 07:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by pradavee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just going to pick him up. Just go
2006-12-13 07:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Purplepassion9126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him and stay with your bf....give him my email address so i can hook up with him
2006-12-13 07:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by ladywetherell23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are innocent, he is not.
Stay far far away
2006-12-13 07:04:29 · answer #10 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋