resently my boyfriend of two years said he wanted a break because he was stressed with uni work and his job, but i really miss him so much and i don't understand y he did this cause now he is saying that i have to try and live without him but how, i have not stopped crying since this happened he is breaking my heart, i have said well if u r stressed we will see each other once a week then but he still won't have that he said to stay friends and work on from their and start a new but i can't stop thinking about him everytime i close my eyes he is there i don't understand because a few months ago he took me to spain for my birthday so i don't know what has changes, please help me, what do i do
2006-12-13
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Just stop thinking about him and move on to the next one in line. You never know, you might get yourself a diamond in the ruff.
2006-12-13 06:48:14
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answered by K-E-G 4
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The problem here is that you're not independant enough from the relationship. You are very much dependant on him and what he's doing and when he'll spend time with you. You're upset because in reality, you're feeling rejected but you should turn that around for yourself. If he doesn't want to see you or can't because of work related issues, then get your own life! Take a class on something you've always wanted to learn, pick up a job or a second job somewhere so you can have extra cash...do things solely and completly for yourself. Then you'll see a big difference in everything else!
2006-12-13 14:49:13
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answered by Dr. Kat 5
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Thats a hard situation. Its true to say your boyfriend is facing a challenging time in his life... but i cant help but think there is sumthing else going on there. 2 years and suddenly he calls the whole affair off? I find it good he wants to stay in contact with you. I believe you need to figure out the reasoning behind this sudden change of heart. Just remember there are so many more people out there, and he is stupid if he just wants u to forget him. I say move on and get out there and enjoy yourself!!:D xxxx
2006-12-13 14:50:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi,
Sometimes relationships end without there being a real reason, I think your boyfriend was doing the right thing for himself and that its just hard for you to see that right now.
I know its hard to suddenly loose your partner especially if you loved him, but you have to be sad, cry and feel everything that you feel and in time you will be able to move on even though it doesn't seem like it right now.
Hope everything else goes well
2006-12-13 14:49:53
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answered by jumpin_jelly_cat 2
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Unfortunatly as a guy this has happend to me with women saying the same thing. It is breaking up the wimpy way. It was his way of leaving the door open and keeping you hurting until he finally had the balls to officially end it. I know this is not the answer you want to hear but it is reality. Cry and be upset but get it out of your system and go out and find yourself a great guy who will treat you right.
2006-12-13 14:49:33
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answered by harwags 2
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first of all, you've got to realize that no matter what happens between you and your boyfriend, you CAN live without him. you should never depend on someone else for your happiness, let alone your whole life. learn to be enough by yourself. secondly, if you say that he just took you on a trip, and nothing seemed to be wrong before he wanted a break, believe him. everyone reaches points in their life where they just want a time out. perhaps he's reached that point. it doesn't have to mean that he cares any less for you. give him time. good luck!
2006-12-13 14:56:32
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answered by Anonymous
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You have to move on im afraid its not easy i know i have just come out of a 5 year relationship and it does hurt but things will improve try not to sit around thinking about things keep yourself busy do the things you always wanted to do dont matter how small those things are set goals for yourself. best wishes
2006-12-13 14:51:20
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answered by Ding Dong 3
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I know what you are going through. I think that maybe he either found somebody else or he just has too much on his plate that he doesn't want to bring you down with him. Give him some time and he'll know what is best for you guys
2006-12-13 14:49:07
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answered by Emma 2
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I'm sorry you're having such a terrible time.
I'm afraid, though, that it sounds as if the relationship is over as far as he is concerned. I think he's trying to let you down gently.
The worst thing you can do is continue to chase him or pressure him. If he wanted to be with you he would be with you. I don't think you can change that.
Sorry.
2006-12-13 14:50:05
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answered by mcfifi 6
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sometimes guys lke there space. try talking to him as to why hes stressed out . dont worry you havent lost him maybe hes just trying to find out if your willing to wait for him. besides if you really like him youll gve him his space.
2006-12-13 14:49:45
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answered by sexyshara 1
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