This guy was going out with my bff and he broke up with her but she still likes him. too bad he likes me and is going to ask me out. i dont know what to do. should i tell her the truth about him or should i just go out with him or just say no to him? I'm soooo confused. i don't want to lose her but i like him. please help!!
2006-12-13 05:51:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should not go out with him if she still likes him because that is not being a true friend to her.
2006-12-13 05:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An aquaintence would be one thing....but your BEST friend? Forget about the guy. Like someone said before, you will regret it. And forget all the answers trying to "work out" the situation. There is no way you can have both. You can to a certain extent. Perhaps your friend will say she's fine with it, but deep down it will affect her and your friendship will never be the same. Ive seen it happen many many times. Yeah theyre still friends, but it was never quite the same.
If she is really your best friend, you wouldnt even think about going out with that guy. Maybe you could like a year later and she has another bf or something....but even then it could get a little sticky. Why risk a good friendship over it?
2006-12-13 05:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by wizexel22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like the guy say yes 2 him and if ur bff is really ur bff then she will be understanding of it and if not then find urself a knew bff
2006-12-13 05:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by his nena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a true bff then she will understand. If she doesn't just tell her that you like him and he likes you and that you want to go out with him.
2006-12-13 05:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by ★ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were her BFF then you would not go out with her ex. Why would you want her Seconds anyway. You are not a very good friend.
2006-12-13 05:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with your friend. Tell her about him wanting to ask you out and that you like him. A real friend will be happy for you. If she can't get past the issue of him breaking up with her than it shouldn't make you stop your happiness.
2006-12-13 05:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would a. tell her, so that she realizes how much of an **** he is, and b. do not go out with him. That's just wrong and disrespectful to her, in addition to the fact that it's dick of him to go after his ex's best friend. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
2006-12-13 05:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by cna_77381 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if your friendship is worth a relationship with a guy that may last a few weeks or possibly a few months (what's his typical track record?)
2006-12-13 05:54:16 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you should tell her cuz she is your bff and she deserves to know, i think you will hurt her more if you dont tell her! plus your bff should be way more important than some stupid guy!!
2006-12-13 05:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by SexyAmby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value your friendship in the slightest, you will tell him no. why would you want your best-friends left overs anyway? if you go out with him and she finds out she will hate you and probably start rumors about you. high school can be so cruel
2006-12-13 05:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by adi23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋