If your Love of your life just up and left you because she said she was confused after dating for 3 and half years. Do you wait around and see if she can figure it out on her own or should i move on when we talked still she told me she loved me and will always but she cant be with me right now. Although now she completely ignores me so whats that mean i always heard that if an ex is a total a$$ to you then she wants back with you.
2006-12-13 05:48:36 · 17 answers · asked by lilpimptk101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she didnt cheat but she talked to another guy and claims to have fallin for him but she has told me she still cares about me and that if i moved on she wouldnt know what to do.
2006-12-13 05:52:32 · update #1
she has told me that she calls him my name and things all the time that when shes with him it reminds her of us is that a good or bad thing.
2006-12-13 05:53:40 · update #2
i am trying to move on but my heart is telling me to stay and that she will be back
2006-12-13 05:54:30 · update #3
in trying to win her back give me some ideas on how i can win her back i dont want to move on i love her so much she is my one and only.
2006-12-13 06:09:42 · update #4
awwwww, im sry! that is really such a bad situation to be in! if u love her that much that u think shes gonna come back, wait it out. However, dont be stuck on her...if the wait is too long...or if u've heard that shes with someone else....then you should obviously move on. This doesnt sound like good advice, but if i was in ur shoes and i moved on before i found out anything...i would regret not waiting...tht's the only reason im telling u to do this. Maybe she just needs some time off from the relationship....she wants some space.... i hope u can decide whats right because none of us can give the best or right advice...only ur heart and mind can decide...
hope this helped....good luck!
2006-12-13 06:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should move on. You may not get in a relationship for a while but start dating and meeting new people. It seems like she doesn't want you around, so don't wait on her. If after three years she's so confused maybe she will never figure it out and you would've wasted your life waiting for her. That would suck especially if she isn't the love of your life and that person is still out there waiting to meet you. Good luck.
2006-12-13 05:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by meccaluvher18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you said it does not sound like your ex is being a ***** to you-she's just ignoring you. What you have to understand is that she may be confused as to how she feels about you, so she may need time to figure out how she feels and decide if she wants to be in the relationship anymore. What I suggest you do is let her work it out, if she wants to be with you she will realize that, especially because absence makes the heart grow fonder. So if you back down it will do 2 things: It will give her time to think about what she wants, Also it will give her a time to miss you. Unless she's already moved on, and in that case you should do the same. So keep yourself busy and don't be so eagerly available to her. People can sense desperation, so get out there and keep yourself busy, and enjoy your time apart.
2006-12-13 06:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by moks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she broke up with you to be with this other guy. If she's giving u mixed signals by saying she still loves you and whatnot she is probably hoping if things don't work out with this guy she will have u to fall back on. It seems selfish to me, but that is just how I see it. Don't wait around for her.. nobody deserves to be second best in a relationship. Move on, if she realizes her mistake and sincerely wants to get back together with you then it's up to whether or not u still have feelings for her. But for now I would move on. Good luck.
2006-12-13 05:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She either is two things...
A: found someone right now that has been making her happy. And not sure where its going to leave but wants to keep you around just in case.
B: she is honeslty confused and needs some 'her' time
Either way dont wait...go out have fun enjoy life. If its meant to be with her it will come around. Good luck.
2006-12-13 05:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on...she seems a little unstable right now and you don't really need that in your life. Moving on can sometimes be the hardest part...but you may find that it opens new doors in your life that you least expected!
Happy Holidays by the way!!
2006-12-13 05:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her than I think you should try to win her back.Because you will never love anyone as much as you love your first love and even if you move on I'm sure you will never get over her and you will always be thinking about her.So try to win her again and show her how much you love her.
2006-12-13 05:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by californian*girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should 'see' other people if you want, but don't move on. i don't think your ex kicked you to the curb, i think that since you two have been together for so long she just wonders what it would be like to date again. don't worry though! there are TONS of dogs out there, once she see's that she'll be crawling back to you.
2006-12-13 05:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey wait for a while but act like you've moved on and once she realizes what she had with you she will be back.Trust me it works (good luck)
2006-12-13 05:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by Donal R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a week or two but if she doesnt come back then move on you dont need her if she wants to keep you waiting around. you dont need a girl who will keep you waiting for her. if you need more advice just email me at rae_lewis2003@yahoo.com i will be happy to help you with any problems.
2006-12-13 05:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋